Personally I must admit I’ve never put much value in numbers.
When thinking of my BMI, my doctor said it best when he said: “Your length is not on my chart, and neither is your weight. When I calculate your BMI you’re definitely morbidly obese, but when I look at you, you’re not morbidly obese, you’re just big-boned”.
Back in my bodybuilding years everyone always wanted to know my arm measurements and the amount of weight I could lift. I never could care less about those numbers.
Now that I’m focussing on gaining, everyone always wants to know how much I weigh and how big my waist is. I couldn’t care less about those numbers either. What DOES give a thrill is seeing these numbers of my scale go up, seeing this sphere that blocks the view to my feet swell bigger, the feeling of having a belly and seeing it become larger, seeing my reflection in a mirror and thinking “Now thàt’s bodybuilding!” As long as I can enjoy a good meal and still feel that becoming fatter makes me look better, I’m content.
I don’t care if that’s at 400 pounds, 500 pounds, 600 or even 700 or 800 pounds.
As someone once said (and I don’t know who it was); “It’s not the end destination that’s important, it’s the journey of getting there.”

Ehh.. I think that 800 pounds would give me SERIOUS back problems
I'm 1,99m tall, if I'm not mistaken that's 6ft 6.
And keep in mind that I already weighed 120 kg (264 pounds)in my bodybuilding years, BEFORE I started to gain fat.

Descided to post some pics of my gains over the past years.
183kg (403 pounds) at the moment and no plans of stopping yet.

...And of course, if some nice lady reads this and likes what she sees, I'm still looking for a feeder

To Stella:

True! I'm just afraid that the people interested in gaining/feeding, for who it is more than just fantasy, who are really nice, good and genuine, AND are living nearby, form a subdivision that's rather close to zero.

Gee! Thanks! Wished more people would agree wtih you.

To Larger:

Ehhh...That's why I used the words reasonably common.
I'm sure that any serious gainer/feedee and/or encourager/feeder wished there were more people into it. But let's be honest, if you read the stories on BellyBuilders, Gainrweb and BeefyFrat then there are definitely more gay that straight gainer couples.

Hmmm...
About 330 members on this site.
So far only 6 people told us about their real life experience with feeding relationships.
Are the succes rates so low, or are people too chicken to tell us about it?

What about me?

Well, over the past seven years I’ve had about three real life encounters with female FA’s/Feeders, of which only one was Dutch (I’m from Holland).
Dutch women aren’t into big guys, I suppose.
Unfortunately we simply didn’t have enough in common, except for the fat preference-part. I’ve noticed that it’s hard, almost impossible to get to know someone through e-mail and/or chat.