Oh, goodness. When I met the little man, he was just a freshman in college. He didn't start "gaining" properly until we moved in together. He looked cute with a few extra pounds, so I wanted to see if I could really fatten him up. It was very easy. The little husband is very domesticated and enjoyed cooking. He has a sweet tooth, as well. After trying to suppress his inner sweet tooth because of pressure, I encouraged him to do the opposite. He is a sweetheart, not one to go against the tide. He quickly put on weight, happily going from resisting the extra dishes I purchased when we went out, to requesting more. While I think he used to feel ambivalent about being so fat, recently one of my feeder friends said, "Have you put on weight?" - with a little tone of praise. Surrounding him with fatter friends and other feeders has done him a world of good in accepting his weight.

Others have already given good input, but I have to say, I enjoyed fattening my little husband so much, and it took a while. In general, though, it was more satisfying. Although speed can be thrilling, make sure there's time to enjoy it, too.

That is just the control talking. Personally, I think you should have a feeder, as it's good to have someone else to guide you. Once you let go of the need to control, and find someone who will help you let go of that need, you can be led to your true self.
Until you find someone, practice letting go of the control and try to pause after a big meal, to remind yourself of how good you feel after. Your feeder will guide you later.

This is the time to get rid of those awful habits you have, and slow down. How much have you been eating and how have you been slowing your metabolism?

Sounds like you're coming along just fine. Personally, I'm for slow and steady. Focus on finishing rather than being "fast".
Make sure you take time to enjoy that feeling of just past full - You know, where your belly stretches just a little, and really sink into it. It's not necessarily a race, so why force it to be one? Just make sure you finish it all, and over time finishing all that pasta and Nutella will be a quick snack.
Just my opinion.

I am one. Generally I like the guy in question to be a little chubby already, or else be inclined to be chubby. When I met the little husband, he had a secret love of sweets and doing nothing, but he also was trying to convince himself he didn't. So I love a little man who can give up control. It's wonderful to lead someone to their true selves, to fatten them up and to show them how they can be better. In my opinion, slow but steady progress is preferred. It's very arousing to watch them become more helpless, both in terms of their desires and also become more obedient as a partner.
I know some like fast gains but for me slow and steady wins out every time.

It varies greatly. Some, like the little husband, are inclined to be fat and can soak up a dramatic amount for the food they eat. It also depends on activity level, their taste, and various other factors.
Once the little man had license to eat as much as he could, with minimal exertion, it was like a snowball. So it depends a lot on body chemistry.

For a while, my daughter made me not want to do ANYTHING else lol.
All joking aside, I have to say instilling healthy habits is really important to me. It makes some more challenges for the little husband, having to cook so much, but it's for the good of my family and that comes before everything.

I'm afraid I've been slipping into this category for some time. Any time someone tells me they don't like exercise or something, I slip in.
Recently an acquaintance and I were working out and they confessed they hated it - I gave them a selection of their favourite treats after a session and their "workout" is so mediocre at this point they may as well not do it. The best part is it's now in my home, and my husband is more than happy to supply them with less "motivation." I just can't help it - there's something about it I find so adorable.

Oh, is this fun. Dominance mixed with feeding is simply the best of both worlds. So many places to go.
I have too much to say, but the first thing is to create expectations for your feedee. My first was to say he had to finish everything. It could take as long as it takes, but it would have to be finished. Then, telling him to stay home while you're doing something active - it slows him down. Those are two everyday things that will help.