First time meeting a feedee as a feeder who also likes to be a little fat

Tomorrow I’m going to meet a feedee I’ve talked to for a little bit. It’s my first time meeting someone in the role of a feeder and I’m a little hesitant but mainly excited. He also prefers his women a bit bigger, so I suppose I’ll wear something form fitting for my fat belly. We are meeting in a city in the middle of our locations and I suppose we will be getting a hotel to explore, stuff and play. Has anyone had this experience before? Would stuffing and cake shake be overdoing it the first time?
1 year