I don’t know if I’m just good at picking girls who are repressed feedees but every girl I date pretty quickly gets into eating without having had the talk. Maybe it’s just how good my cooking is hahaha
Normally I introduce lots of delicious food and I encourage gluttony.
Usually about a year maybe two in she’s put on enough weight that she’s starting to have to asses if she should lose
That’s when we have the ‘talk’
I tell her I prefer her heavy, that I like bigger girls in general, usually she is relieved. I tell her I’d actually love her to gain more.
Then trail and error and we end up doing feeder feedee stuff
Before people start calling me a secret feeder, I am always very transparent about how fattening the food I make is, I just make it clear that I don’t care if they put on weight.
In my experience if I give them ‘permission’ to gain they do. Once they have and know that it’s okay they are happy to be free of the ‘thin standards’ and can eat what they want.
X_Larsson:
How have you feeders (successfully!) introduced the feeding thing to a potential girl friend? I found similar topics, but not focusing on an early pass/fail tactics. Maybe that is not the right way to do it?
On the other hand, if you really are a feeder, I think it can be dishonest to wait long before the talk. If you both invest time and feelings, the potential breakup is unnecessarily painful? I personally doubt a "regular", non gaining BBW would keep me completely happy.
What say you? Is there a smooth way of testing the waters, or is it to sit down and "pull the band-aid" that has worked the best? Can potential partners take in something like this, or is this a show stopper?
