shdwyldcat wrote:
I'm glad to see a well thought out, and comprehensive response. I am interested in bringing to light information that can help men who are feedees learn what they can do/become (in addition being fat) to attract women who are FFAs and feeders. I am also interested in ways that male feedees might be able to pick an FFA or woman who is a feeder out of a crowd.

I realize that many women don't realize this, but most single men are terrified to walk up to a woman, and just say hello. I know this sounds silly, but its true. I've helped several guys deal with these issues before I stopped coaching because too many of my friends were listening to my advice long enough to find someone they really liked, at which point they'd get married, and drop of the face of the planet.

I don't want to limit the scope of this thread to just the things I am suggesting, so if you have suggestions that you think might be helpful, please feel free to post them. Dos and Don'ts would be great too, as long as we keep out obvious things that fall within the realm of good etiquette like, "Don't stick your finger up your nose while pretending to pee with a bananna."

Buffetbelly wrote:
I have here in my desk drawer a "Party Size" Planter's Dry Roasted Peanuts. It was 2 dollars at Wal-Mart and contains 34 "servings" of 170 calories each. That's a total of 5,780 calories in a single jar. That's nearly enough to gain two pounds of pure jiggly fat. "Party" of one?

Buffetbelly wrote:
I went from a muscular and broad shoulder build to massively fat (240 to 365 at 6'1". The first 75 pounds or so came on really quickly, so people were very startled. They made a fuss. But once the original shock wore off, I didn't ehar anything more.

People have to adjust their thinking. I had been in category of a "regular guy" in people's mind and I suddenly jumped to the "fat guy" category. That's a big adjustment. But once people came to think of me as a fat guy, that was it. When I put on even more weight, they didn't bat an eye because that's what fat guys do.

So when you are facing those initial harsh reactions, realize that it doesn't go on forever. Once people think of you as a fat person, things will settle down.