amidsttundra wrote:Dan007 wrote:
[quote]LyteWing wrote:
While there are still many great guys out there (I would like to consider myself one but then again all the creeps think they are great too) they seem to be far over-shadowed by the creepy jerks. My personal experience with this site is that most women will not even talk to you or return a simple hello message because they have received nothing but a steady stream of horrible messages from low-lifes since they joined the site and are therefore unwilling to take any more chances on anyone.
But here is the rub....the jerks would not use their foul methods if it did not work for them an acceptable amount of times. Personally I could never employ such methods but there is obviously some allure to the "bad boy" path that some women respond to, at least at first.
It works in reverse too mind you...my last interaction with a lady on this site ended up being a bit shaky as well. She indicated that she lived in the next town over from me. This turned out to be a lie when I asked if we could meet for lunch and found out she actually lived several STATES away. Foolishly, I decided to continue to talk to her only to find that she had also given me a false email address and name! So just a couple of quick tips....if you are looking to build a relationship with someone always show them respect and don't try to build your relationship on a lie....much less three! LOL
This post made me vomit.
No one misunderstood you either, you have a ridiculous white knighting notion.
You are justifying the existence of creeps by saying that it is fed and encouraged by women themselves...
I'll let you think over that again.
A lot of his previous posts come across as woe is me whining about how much of a nice guy he is and how it's so unfair nobody loves him. I get the feeling he's one of those "nice guys."
Case in point:
]fantasyfeeder.com/cms/infusions/forum/view-thread.phpYou know...I remember when this site was a place that people of a like mind and admiration of all the plus-sized fetish topics could come together and enjoy each others company and have open-minded and intelligent discussions on all topics.
If this where we are now? Personal attacks on people when their views and opinions don't seem to synch with your own? Tell me, what did I say that seems to have upset you to the point where you had to launch acid-tipped comments directed at me?
Yes...I may have a "white-knight" attitude but that probably has to do with my upbringing that taught me that all people are deserving of respect until they prove otherwise, this is especially true of women. I am sorry that this seems to run contrary to your beliefs and that it offends you.
And that you for bringing up that previous post of mine....it does relate to this subject. Is there something so wrong with expecting someone to acknowledge your presence when you say hello to them? I often use the example of talking to someone in the real world and them ignoring you. I personally feel it is a bit rude and also you potentially miss the chance to make a new friend. But to each their own.
Again...sorry my apparently antiquated views of how to treat others offended both of you and made one of you vomit. LOL