Would you rather...(for gainers and feedees)

I would love to be the loving feeder with a hint of dom. I want my husband to be happy, turned on and well fed, lying in bed all day working from home home on the computer. I would feed him massive amounts of food until he is around 600 pounds, and then I would enjoy watching him struggle to get around the house while his fat jiggles everywhere. I'd like if he protests a little bit then shamefully admit that he likes me making him fat and semi helpless.

In reality though, I wouldn't want to hurt his health... I wish he could be hugely fat for sex but then go back to normal the next morning.
6 years

Husband learning to like feederism

AskDrFeeder:
There are lots of downsides to gaining (especially starting where your husband already is!). Just because the idea turns him on does not mean he should do it. Also it can be a slippery slope...even a little stuffing and gaining might lead to him gaining a lot more than he wants.

A frank talk about his concerns might help. Maybe if you can help him gain in a careful manner (contrary to your inclination I'm sure!) he'd be more open to it.


Thanks! I'll have to carefully broach the subject with him. I certainly wouldn't want to cause him permanent damage. I wish he could gain and lose in an instant so we could play around but still have regular life.
6 years

Husband learning to like feederism

Hi! Need some advice...I can tell that my husband is aroused by my desire to make him fatter, but he is pretty resistant. I think he is just nervous, but he said he likes it because it's "deviance". He got pretty turned on by the idea of being too fat to pleasure himself. How can I encourage him? I have no desire to make him unhealthy, and he knows it, just want to stuff him once in a while with maybe a little gaining. He's already 360 pounds with sub tendencies.
6 years