Does anyone enjoy aging ?
No. I’m 67 and experiencing some problems, unrelated to my weight, that I never thought I would.
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I’m thinking of learning to bloat and/or inflate
Are they the same? I would love to see my belly blow up. I understand that I can extend my belly to consume more food and create a cycle of eating more, gaining more, expanding more, etc.
Do I ...
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Sucking-in
I had to unlearn sucking in my belly. I still catch myself doing it but for the most part I consciously let it hang out.
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Does being fat enhance the experience of the fetish?
For me it’s very erotic. I’m gay and have liked fat men (read fantasized sex and masturbation material) for the longest time. I actually feel sexy being fat.
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Busty guys
My moobs are starting to grow. I was a weightlifter and had a pretty defined and solid chest. Since I stopped working out I lost some muscle and gained a lot of fat. I gain muscle and fat fast, but...
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I put butter in my coffee
There, I said it … I put butter in my coffee along with heavy cream or light cream.
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Mental health and appetite
Yes, it happens to me too. When I’m depressed or stressed I lose my appetite. I may be genuinely very hungry, with my stomach rumbling and hunger pangs but I can’t eat. I just ride it out. ...
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What was your point of no return?
Recently when I decided I’m not going back; recently when I gave away my size 42 pants and jeans; when I decided I want to wear size 46-48 and hit at least 250-260 lbs (I’m about 5’6”); whe...
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Getting man boobs
It was probably when I passed 210 (I’m about 5’6”) that I started growing moobs. They’re not big, and with a shirt you really can’t tell but my chest and underarms are getting fatter and ...
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Roll call! any other autistic feedist in the house?
I haven’t been formally tested or diagnosed but all my life I’ve had the markers and behaviors of Level One Autism. I have two nephews who are also on the spectrum. Oddly, I can read body langu...
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Your passion/ favorite hobby
Playing guitar and (a bit of) bass; weight lifting; reading and learning: science, history, mythology of different cultures; food and cooking, and of course eating. Lol
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Gay men in gainer community
I don’t know if all fat gay men deliberately gain but at least on Grommr there are 10s of 1000s of gay men who are gainers, maintainers, encouragers, admirers, feeders, feedees and every permutat...
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Low libido from antidepressants
I’m on bupropion, busprione and lamotrigine for bipolar depression; metoprolol for blood pressure; and oxycodone and pregabalin for chronic back pain (failed lumbar fusion surgery).
So yeah, ...
So yeah, ...
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Favorite euphemisms for fat
Men’s Wearhouse has a line of suits and jackets called “Executive” … for us fat guys. 🤣🤣🤣 Used be referred to as portly.
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Have you ever gotten off simply by playing with your belly?
I haven’t but I hope at some time I can. I’m trying to learn to c*m by playing with my nips, but no luck yet. I would love to be sitting on traffic, for example, rub my belly and c*m in my skivvi
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Anyone there talk?
My question is do you make being trans the first thing you mention whether it is pertinent to the subject? To be blunt, do you announce it, are you “in your face” about it? When I first ca...
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What brought about your fat fetish and when?
I’ve always been insecure about my looks, though tbh I’m not bad looking. I’m short, fat, bald (shaved), and bearded. Think of Jason Alexander with a beard and shaved bald.
Nevertheless t...
Nevertheless t...
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Do you have kinks that are unrelated to weight, food, or bdsm ?
I’m only lately open about my kinks. I was always embarrassed because I’d think people would laugh and say “What? What a nutcase!”’ But I’m learning that there are a lot of all kinds o...
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Getting involved in the community
If a person is respectful, interested in and supportive of our kink, and not a troll, imo that person is welcome. I’m on Grommr, which has skinny guys, average guys, even muscle monsters who are...
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Anyone there talk?
Ok, I’m sure this isn’t going to be popular but it’s just my opinion since the door was opened …
I’m gay but I mention it only when it’s relevant to the conversation. I’m not a tra...
I’m gay but I mention it only when it’s relevant to the conversation. I’m not a tra...
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