Click on the icon of two heads, which brings up a list of people on chat. Click my name and ask for a private chat.
Use the same as you use for the site itself, and you'll be in the antechamber, as it were, of chat.
DBS - on the top menu, click 'chat', then 'enter chat'. Then it'll ask you for your ID and password.
The pub analogy is used a lot. How would you think the bar staff would feel if you loudly said to another patron, 'If you think this place is shit, try xyz'?
@kittenmeow: Please don't post/solicit alternative social media contacts in shout.
In which case, don't moan if your shouts get deleted (when I'm online) and others don't (when I'm not).
@DoughBellyStuffer: if you see people in shout posting that, please tell a mod, and they will delete it.
@DoughBellyStuffer: Please don't post or solicit alternative social media contacts in shout.
@aryastark: Please don't post/solicit alternative social media contacts in shout.