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9 years
It's 23°F here. What's neat is my body get used to it and it feels not so bad.
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9 years
I really want to get that "chubby girls cuddle better" Tshirt but it has the brand/logo right on the front >:[
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9 years
I think personal agency is one of the best things to hang on to in those types of challenges.
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9 years
To summarize: Chubby ladies, when the attention starts making you feel a little recovered and you start fancying a date, consider calling josod et al.
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9 years
If they were for real, I'd bet they're being defensive/in denial when presented with the idea of legitimate affection for something they've been taught is bad.
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9 years
true that.
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9 years
Really? That is extra lame. I guess I'm lucky that I haven't felt negative feedback from being openly doting/loving to fat girlfriends.
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9 years
Yeah I agree about weight not being a negative attribute of someone, and it really is horrible that growing up a fat girl in the US is as hard as it is.
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9 years
I think it's really good there's an outlet to get attention to make up for all the baggage handed to fat people everywhere else.
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9 years
SSW-semester was totally stormy, proverbially. I am attempting to relax a 'lil. I'm excited about my new french skillet I got in the mail today 
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9 years
I think giving attention to those seeking it when you really want something else usually doesn't pay off.
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9 years
It simply excludes a lot of folks from jiving with my own agenda very well.
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9 years
Yeah. I don't blame anyone for choosing attention vs something else - it often is really socially hard being fat.
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9 years
hi SSW :3
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9 years
another option is looking for something beyond anon affirmation, but thats rare among women here.
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9 years
yeah. women have an option to use this site as a source of attention.
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9 years
josod: yes
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9 years
what brings you back from hibernation, GG1988?
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9 years
I guess we can take your word for it...
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9 years
We would but hey, no pictures to see how fat you've gotten!
