LondonFA


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LondonFA 3 years
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flabby belly/loose skin fetish from extremely obese weight loss?
Not 100% sure how extreme, but the very soft feeling of a woman on top who's lost 40-50lbs quite quickly is amazing.
LondonFA 3 years
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does exercise actually help with weight gain/fat distribution?
All 3 of my relationships (including my wife) that have had an active gaining element resulted in significant fat distribution and shape changes when anaerobic exercise was introduced.

High cal...
LondonFA 3 years
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if you had a switch, would you turn it off?
As an FA but without too stronger draw to any body type from chubby and up I've actually found this preference/fetish a strength.
Being "overweight" is more prevalent now than being at a "healthy...
LondonFA 3 years
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how did you found out that you like fat people?
Never noticed a difference. Parents, siblings and myself are all very fit but had a very mixed range of family friends. I guess after a few early dates there was a clear pattern. It's hard to defin...
LondonFA 3 years
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fat friendly massage therapy in london
West London Physio in Kensington used to be good (haven't been in a number of years). They dealt with a bariatric client of my friend for back pain. He was a big guy and had sciatic pain, don't rec...
LondonFA 3 years
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healthy/vegan gaining
A friend of my wife's went from about 170(ish) lbs to 268 in the first 4 years of going vegan.

From memory, it was a lot of bread, hummus, advocados, pastas with vegan sauces and any number of v...
LondonFA 3 years
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has anyone spoken to a therapist about this kink?
Definitely, at the behest of an ex who struggled the other way around. I convinced her that my comments about her body weren't empty platitudes and that it's an actual kink/preference to see her ea...
LondonFA 3 years
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i feel like this can be a lonely kink
It's a fairly lonely place, however if you are active in the online community and use spaces like this to find or arrange small IRL meets it becomes easier.

Also be open with sexual partners wh...
LondonFA 3 years
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question about hygiene and large backsides?
One of those shower bidets is great. You can get them pretty cheap on Amazon. What I would avoid is a cheap amazon purchased bidet seat for the toilet. We had one and a larger friend cracked it...
LondonFA 3 years
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uk meets?
let's keep the thread alive until stuff hopefully blows over
LondonFA 3 years
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have you ever known a couple you suspected of being feeders/gainers?
Our long time friends. The way he praises both his wife and mine for their "appetites " when we go out together. His wife (a long time friend of my wife ) has got from thicc to very big over 7 ...
LondonFA 3 years
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struggling to gain
Don't expect your gain to be linear. You'll usually find just sticking with the habits that worked before providing you are checking your still consuming at least 500kcal over your required amo...
LondonFA 3 years
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do you have kids? does that change anything for you?
So my wife and I have 3 (7, 3 and 18months).

We're talking together about this together as I type.

1. Yes during pregnancy your sex life changes. Usually for the better after the 1st tri...
LondonFA 3 years
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uk meets?
Bah. Shame but, sitting at different tables in a pub isn't really the best way to make friends.
LondonFA 3 years
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i miss buffets
I have some hongkonger friends who bought and kitted out their first Chinese buffet in January this year and they are terrified by the idea that it may be impossible for the business type to every ...
LondonFA 3 years
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for those who have a fat wife/husband, what is it like?
How often do you have sex?
As often as we can with young kids and a baby around

Do you feel like your relationship is built off love or lust?
Both but probably more love. They drive each other...
LondonFA 3 years
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do you prefer to have a fat partner?
Totally this. My wife is now very soft (although she has lost some size in the last month). But for some reason I can't shake the old.roles of I do the heavy and hard she does the fine and soft...
LondonFA 3 years
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uk meets?
I'm still up for it (so long as they end the lockdown so we don't all have to be at different tables....)
LondonFA 3 years
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lactose intolerance and weight gain
Lactase tablets do help, but then again, carbs carbs carbs can really increase the calories without needing any dairy intake.

Big pasta meals, burritos with no cheese, burgers, the list goes on ...
LondonFA 3 years
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so how brits are on here?
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