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Malvineous
1 year
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came out to wife, advice?
This advice is generally good, but what makes it manipulation is the secrecy and the intent to pavlov her without consent. Don't do that to people. Instead, just have open and honest communicat...
came out to wife, advice?
This advice is generally good, but what makes it manipulation is the secrecy and the intent to pavlov her without consent. Don't do that to people. Instead, just have open and honest communicat...
Malvineous
1 year
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butthurt scams?
I don't know why I'm wading into this minefield, but here goes. I think the point that was being made was that most people are out here treating each other like objects. Men treat women like a piec...
butthurt scams?
I don't know why I'm wading into this minefield, but here goes. I think the point that was being made was that most people are out here treating each other like objects. Men treat women like a piec...
Malvineous
1 year
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butthurt scams?
I, too, am butthurt about scams. Not this situation though, I mean the real ones.
butthurt scams?
I, too, am butthurt about scams. Not this situation though, I mean the real ones.
Malvineous
1 year
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sports for bbw bhm and ssbbw ssbhm
Anything involving swimming. It's low impact exercise, plus floating might be an advantage.
sports for bbw bhm and ssbbw ssbhm
Anything involving swimming. It's low impact exercise, plus floating might be an advantage.
Malvineous
1 year
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ethics
I agree with your first point, the gainer should explore this lifestyle with a supportive partner and try not to lay the responsibility for their needs at their relatives' feet, if possible. Th...
ethics
I agree with your first point, the gainer should explore this lifestyle with a supportive partner and try not to lay the responsibility for their needs at their relatives' feet, if possible. Th...
Malvineous
1 year
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sending photos in a message
I want to send photos to someone through a message, but there doesn't seem to be any attachment button, and it looks like messages are text only. Is there any way to send a photo through the site w...
sending photos in a message
I want to send photos to someone through a message, but there doesn't seem to be any attachment button, and it looks like messages are text only. Is there any way to send a photo through the site w...
Malvineous
1 year
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my conclusion
I'll try to rephrase. I hope you get free of your situation and find the guy you're looking for. You deserve a break. The kind of guys you want are out there for sure. However, they're actually pre...
my conclusion
I'll try to rephrase. I hope you get free of your situation and find the guy you're looking for. You deserve a break. The kind of guys you want are out there for sure. However, they're actually pre...
Malvineous
1 year
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ethics
Good point, and I have noticed something similar regarding trauma. I agree that it depends on how they deal with it. For some, trauma is debilitating, and can lead to depression, kill their self-es...
ethics
Good point, and I have noticed something similar regarding trauma. I agree that it depends on how they deal with it. For some, trauma is debilitating, and can lead to depression, kill their self-es...
Malvineous
1 year
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in your opinion are those with this fetish are more likelier to be autistic?
I think it has to do with having special interests. If you can obsessively fixate on Pokemon, you can also obsessively fixate on kink. lol
Fetishes - gotta catch em all!
in your opinion are those with this fetish are more likelier to be autistic?
I think it has to do with having special interests. If you can obsessively fixate on Pokemon, you can also obsessively fixate on kink. lol
Fetishes - gotta catch em all!
Malvineous
1 year
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ethics
Finally, there's virtue ethics, which is based on the idea that everyone should cultivate good personality traits (virtues) and act in accordance, while avoiding bad traits (vice). "Be the change y...
ethics
Finally, there's virtue ethics, which is based on the idea that everyone should cultivate good personality traits (virtues) and act in accordance, while avoiding bad traits (vice). "Be the change y...
Malvineous
1 year
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ethics
Ok, but how do you actually know when something is ethical or not? It seems like most people just go with their gut instinct and use "ethics" as a post-hoc justification. Does it feel right? Then i...
ethics
Ok, but how do you actually know when something is ethical or not? It seems like most people just go with their gut instinct and use "ethics" as a post-hoc justification. Does it feel right? Then i...
Malvineous
1 year
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flavor fatigue during stuffing
It's not just flavor fatigue for me. If I eat too much of the same flavor, I start to feel really sick like I might throw up. But I can make that feeling go away and keep eating if I switch to a di...
flavor fatigue during stuffing
It's not just flavor fatigue for me. If I eat too much of the same flavor, I start to feel really sick like I might throw up. But I can make that feeling go away and keep eating if I switch to a di...
Malvineous
1 year
Malvineous
2 years
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can you be healthy at any weight?
I feel like I need to set the record straight about HAES, since it seems most people, whether supporters or critics, misunderstand what it means. HAES did that to themselves though. I've looked thr...
can you be healthy at any weight?
I feel like I need to set the record straight about HAES, since it seems most people, whether supporters or critics, misunderstand what it means. HAES did that to themselves though. I've looked thr...
Malvineous
4 years
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any feeders married to a non feedee?
I wasn't married, but I have some experience with this. Obviously it depends a lot on your personalities and the strength of your relationship and your fetish, so maybe it can work for you. Fro...
any feeders married to a non feedee?
I wasn't married, but I have some experience with this. Obviously it depends a lot on your personalities and the strength of your relationship and your fetish, so maybe it can work for you. Fro...
Malvineous
4 years
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i need help
I also have clinical depression, but I find that just occupying my mind with hobbies doesn't really pay off. It can be fun in the moment, but I still end up just as depressed after. Here's what act...
i need help
I also have clinical depression, but I find that just occupying my mind with hobbies doesn't really pay off. It can be fun in the moment, but I still end up just as depressed after. Here's what act...
