I am the same... I used to be thin and fit, then gained a lot of weight. The first 30-40 lbs didnt affect dating much for me. I carry it well. But one or two people I dated definitely didnt want me to gain anymore and were even concerned at times. It wasnt until I was in another relationship that I gained another 50 lbs, and she didn't really even notice, or at least she didn't say anything. So I haven't really dated at my heaviest, but I can tell that I attract less looks when out. That said, sites like these make me confident that there are many people that don't mind about weight or are into it. Bottom line: I enjoy being fat and eating what I want, and any date needs to appreciate that too
8 years