Yea I know what you mean. I think it's a kind of a elephant in the room kind of thing. My wife has done this for years mostly in front of her girlfriends (when I have been around) after she has gained a good amount of weight. She doesn't do it with the subtle 5-10 Lbs. that I know a lot of women do just to get reassurance or a compliment that they are not to Fat but she does it with a 20-30 Lb. gain. After not seeing them for a long time she will look for an opportunity to work her weight gain into the conversation...and a lot of the time it seem's it is centered around food or especially desert which they all know she has a huge sweet tooth. As we are serving food buffet style she will almost over emphasize the amount she takes and say something like, "it's not like I skip any meals as she piles on a huge amount on her plate" or when a friend asks her for desert she would say "I will have one of each and make it a big slice" when they are cutting a cake or pie. Then comment, it's not like I won't eat all of this.....as she put's a bite to her mouth and moans so seductively. She kind of put's it out there to her friends like ....yea I have gotten Fat again as if to let them know she is well aware she is Fat and this is how she got Fat again.
Like you said it drives me crazy with arousal when I see this. But to most people it's just kind of funny or a joke.
Like you said it drives me crazy with arousal when I see this. But to most people it's just kind of funny or a joke.
7 years