Extreme obesity

At what point does moving become difficult and at what point does it move into immobility ?

Some people are immobile at 400 lbs, some people can still (eventually) waddle to a commode at 800 lbs. It depends on a lot of factors.

At that point you never let the pain of an overstretched gut subside. Make them realize what it means to be trapped.

In my experience, they are so hungry by the time they are immobile, that keeping them full and comfortable is a 24/7 job.

How do you figure out when you want to take care of a feedee?

It’s more of a gut feeling. When I meet in person, I am honest from the beginning and watch the reaction and let it happen. They are free to leave whenever, although all have stayed longer then most would expect.

You own their income and their property and if they want to leave they are too obese to get out of bed and not need help. They are your slaves when they decided to gain weight. What kind of freedom is that? I see they have no option to leave and you say that these people are just work. Is this so or am I wrong?

You have to read through all of her replies for your answer.

Wow.....at some point they have no choice but to stay, as others have pointed out; they can no longer walk, and their finances are "controlled". But, it seems dependence is what they crave, and are willing to risk the possibility of suffering abuse, at the hands of a "care giver". 'Tis f#ck8ng extreme, death the goal, like a fantasy suicide. Cheers.

Death isn't really the GOAL (not that I can speak for everyone.) It's knowing that death is looming, that every pound bring it even closer, but they/you can't or won't stop. It's having health issues that are a clear sign that you're on thin ice...but the food keeps getting forced down, the weight keeps piling on. When the ice breaks it's just over...but seeing how far out you can go is as exciting as it is scary. Some people turn back just in time, but with a frostbite reminder, some stick it out part way and suffer the cold. Either way they'll never be 100%. There will always be a chilling reminder of how close they got, and a temptation to step back out onto the ice.