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If it isn't a real relationship due to distance- why not just break it off?
I mean I know what you like, and she is kinda going the other direction...?

I dont know really how to answer, in a way I feel like the OP was saying she was still attracted to this person, but because of other reasons... it wasn't working out.
I kinda feel like the OP needed a reason or someone to tell her to just break it off.
Nothing is ever easy- but if the first few sentences are- I like her, but it isn't working out like it was... then I suggest you just cut ties and find someone else to make it work with.
But yea I totally get it, I wasn't trying to hurt the OP- or anyone... It is easy for me reading the text to be like- done!
But I am not emotionally involved, and all my friendships/relationships are very defined in my life- friends, lover, co-workers, boss, family, business friendships...So I tend to just want to simplify everyone's life.