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Hello to all. Not much of a poster as you can tell but have been on this site for a very long time and read the forum as well as checking out whats new.

Im kinda after some help here and maybe for some strange coincident someone may be or have been in the same situtation as me. Aswell to offer advice and some thought. It kinda has to do with this site to keep it relevent.

So its a long story but ill cut it down to the main parts. My friend tried to kill herself about 2 months ago. Her problems where drugs, alcohol, and life in general just wasnt that great.

She's now in recovery. She's keeping clean from drugs and alcohol. She got alot of problems she sorting out but she thinks one of her major ones is her weight as she says she put on like 10kg - 15kg. And thats getting her down. This stops her motivation from going outside and doing things she needs to get down.

Now I was thinking of telling her about my fetish or preferance (how ever you want to put it) to let her know that people do like fat and think it is sexy, and that i am one of them. I was thinking that might help boost her confidance abit and be one less thing to worry about?

any suggestions are great.
thanks in advance

thanks for all the advice. Its helped me a little which is all I was after.

I don't think i should tell her. As has been said just supporting and helping when they needed is the best way. I know she wants to do muay thai boxing so i might tag along and keep her company and that should help with her weight problem.

but yes thanks again for all your imput