Ninjabread Girl wrote:flashedeeprom wrote:
I've tried everything I can think of.
You haven't BECAUSE:
I'm not particularly social when it comes to big groups of people,
You don't have to become the belle of the ball, but having solid friends and being social with good people might cure this thing they call loneliness.
I've been alone since November of last year. It has affected my work, my mental health (I am now on two anti depressants).
That's a heck of a lot of pressure to put on someone. You are making the girl the savior of your mental health. Seriously, I don't know many people who'd sign up willingly for that.
I'm sorry you're depressed and feel lonely, but having a girlfriend seriously won't be the magic bullet you're looking for.
It seems like you are taking a girl and making her your entire world and that's not healthy. I'd also chat with your doctor about your anti depressants. You need to love and respect yourself before you can expect anyone else to follow suite and if you have depression problems it might be best to chat with your doctor again and make sure the meds are working properly.
"That's a heck of alot pressure. You are making the girl the saviour of your mental health."
I agree. You have to be happy with YOU before you can make someone else happy. If you are completely dependant on someone else for your wellbeing and self worth, it will eventually send them running for the hills because it will drive them insane.
