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Because if you too have these fetishes and preferences, why even bring it up as a point? The point isn’t the fetish the person has, but their lack of respect towards you.

This is all probably a big case of “What I meant, not what I said”. But your little piece of writing has 166+ notes from people who don’t seem to be able to parse how confusing it really reads, and are calling it “brilliant”. Take a cue from Brian: next time just call out the people who are being jerks for being jerks, and leave whether or not you and I have a preference or a fetish out of it.