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I look at it like this being with a heavy woman or even gaining weight yourself is more common and mainstream then actually being erotically turned on by feeding someone or intentionally having someone gain for you or yourself intentionally gaining in my book.

Many friends are definitely aware that I like the look of a beautiful larger woman and several of my past girlfriends know that I liked weight gain especially on them as esoecially my wife knows that I love it when she gains weight. But to the exact degree or high weight I am sure they didn't and don't know and I don't feel like I need to tell my close friends "see that sexy woman over there that is 350 Lbs. I think she look's so much hotter than that skinny 120 Lb. model over there.....I just don't think I need to bring stuff up like that".

As far as being erotically excited by watching my wife eat bigger portions and seeing her appetite grow and then dreaming of how Fat she will get (or) dreaming of my wife gaining 100 Lbs. I keep these thing's to myself or like minded people on this board. There is much more commonality for this "speciality" we can call it because I believe that everybody is a specialist on this site with regard to weight gain and have a genuine interest and excitement for it and other sub categories related to it.

So, there is a difference to me between a buddy telling me wow, your wife must have gained 80 Lbs. in the last year........I would tell him yep she look's so hot to me.
But if the same buddy knew I was looking at this site and wanting to feed my wife to get her fatter and I get so turned on by even the thought of that even more than I would want to have sex with a 120 Lb model........I just don't think he would understand.....so I leave it alone!

LOL. Don't worry, ex-Navy Seals have plenty of secrets of their own, enough to respect yours.

I've mentioned it in three threads actually so maybe in 5 or 6 posts out of a total of 35 posts on this profile. Certainly not 900 times!

FF is both a fat fetish and a fat positive site. The other threads where I've posted previously and emphasised the fetish element have been ones where people have moaned about sexual messages, or said that humiliation isn't appropriate (when MANY members clearly state openly on their profile they are into that and want it!).

That's not really related to this thread though where the question is would you be embarrassed to be caught on this site, which I've said already, yes I would be embarrassed.

If FF was purely a fat positive site with absolutely no sexual fetish element (and had a different name!) I would have no issues with people knowing I was here. However given it's a hybrid between the two and includes a lot of fetish stuff too, I don't want friends and family knowing about my presence on here.

My friends and family don't need to know my sexual kinks, in the same way that I don't want to know theirs! Most people want to be private and keep their sexual tastes between them and their partner only.

I was sort of caught once... by the cable guy. He was installing my internet and saw my browsing history. After a few minutes, he said that I should really delete my history once in a while. I was a little embarrassed but I would be way more embarrassed if family or certain friends saw.

People who are into size positivity would probably disagree that this is a size positive website, because many of the people here do not like their size and want to gain weight.

I don't hide this site from my boyfriend he knows I go on here but he's usually killing things on his PS4 and doesn't care what I look at on here. At home with my parents coming and going all the time I do hide the browser when they come in the room. My dad is particularly anti-fat and I hear him use it deragatorily all the time to me and my mom. One such example we got new kittens for Christmas since my mom was missing our other cat who had to be put down and she bought this laser pointer to drive them nuts with. My mentally challenged uncle is my dad's brother who lives with us wanted to play with the kittens and use the laser toy and he totally flipped out when I said I let my uncle use it. His words were along the lines of:

"Don't let that idiot use the laser toy! He'll point it in their eyes, get your *** down there and get it back! Move it!!"

It was said with such venom and hate that I just tried to take my time just to try to avoid saying anything back.

Are you the only homophobe in your family too, or does everyone use "gay" as an insult?

interesting topic...

i just had to think about my dad who is sadly gone for some years now but he once did some funny thing with me like if you get to fat you will know just get with your hand straight from your nose down and if it stops at your belly you are too chubby. ;-)

But my mom was pretty chubby , too in the years so i wonder know if i could ask him hehe if he secretly desired chubbiness on females or if he was just preventing us from getting to chubby when young to decide later......

I wonder caus ei like a little chubbiness and teasing a lot and well from someone in my family i would have to enherited my likings i guess^^ to some extent at least .

ehm and now to the real topic ....

haha sorry

yes i would definately try to give a few definate hints to my gf but not to friends and others since it is something intimate for me i would share with a friend whom we may find out what we like by accident or by one of use trying to push the subject but to my family and freinds normally my intimate feelings are not something i share .

Although i wonder how long it takes until someone accidentially finds out ...well then it is like it is and it will be interesting to see how it develops ...^^

Mmhm, this. And unlike people working for the NHS, being gay doesn't have anything to do with anti-fat prejudice whatsoever, so it's irrelevant to mention. Would have been better to just have said something like "and my bro is a dick".