I'd get rid of it in a heartbeat. Yeah, it's fucking great when you can find a fulfilling relationship with someone who's compatible in this regard... But that's, unfortunately, not an easy thing to find.
As far as I can see, these are the only options: 1.) Find a feedee and hope I can love them for(hopefully)ever. 2.) Find someone I can love forever, and hope that they're willing to gain. 2A.) Be in a happy, sexually satisfying relationship (if only it were so easy). or 2B.) Be in a good relationship and have an eternally shitty sex life.
I wish it wasn't such a niche thing. I don't know if it's possible to make someone enjoy gaining if they weren't born enjoying it. I won't push someone to do something they don't want to do, but it does put me in a very disappointing and frustrating corner.
I had the misfortune of falling in love before I made the self-discovery about my fat affinity... So I'm dating a girl on a quest to run a marathon by the fall. It's not the fat part that I dislike about the kink, but the incompatibility. I so badly wish I could be more attracted to my shrinking fianc�, or that my she could be more attracted to growing me.
Honestly I wouldn't get rid of it, however if I did it would make explaining my asexuality much easier. For me its all gaining lifestyle and aesthetic preferences, even the people I find stunningly gorgeous are a matter of aesthetics and not sexual attraction. So yeah not being associated with a fetish would make things easier but it would make my desire to be fat much more isolating.
I really don't think I would. I do have my wavering moments (mainly when something I really like and want to wear doesn't fit), but I really don't think there's anything weird or wrong with it. I see too many good-looking bhm to think there is anything wrong with it.
Sometimes I wish I can get rid of this kink. I knew since I was 14 years old I was into chubby girls. I still wish to get rid of it actually; with that said, it comes at contradiction to a love for my current weight. It's complicated, in short.
Yes, yes, yes.. unfortunately, it makes me feel like I'm living a lie when I'm with a partner who isn't into this stuff at all, because usually I don't tell them for fear of losing their interest. If I could just be into "normal" stuff, it would be so much easier. .but I only really get aroused from someone who loves my fat, so that part sucks. If I did have a feeder though, I really wouldn't care and would love and embrace my fetish