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get rid of your kink?1 year

If you had the chance to change from a feeder/feedee/gainer/FA into a guy/girl without an interest in "Feedism", would you lose your kink to be like every one else?

get rid of your kink?1 year

Nope.

No way I would deny my own pleasures.

get rid of your kink?11 months

If I was equally as attracted to a guy with abs as a guy hugely obese, yes. I could fall in love without worrying about my loved one's health issues.

get rid of your kink?11 months

I can't imagine myself any other way. I adore being big and can never get enough to eat.

get rid of your kink?11 months

Gettingfatter:
Nope.

No way I would deny my own pleasures.


But if the kink no longer existed, it wouldn't be pleasurable, though, right? You wouldn't be denying yourself anything, as you'd no longer desire it.

get rid of your kink?10 months

Yes. If I wasn't into this, I think that I'd be able to lose weight, find a girlfriend, and move on with my life.

get rid of your kink?9 months

In truth, I wish I had normal tastes so that I didn't have to go on to a niche site to meet someone (and then find that everyone lives a zillion miles away)

It would make life a lot easier if I were more conventional in tastes because I could just switch on tinder or whatever and meet someone with a lot more ease and not have to worry about if someone had the same kinks as me.

get rid of your kink?9 months

flyinghorse:
In truth, I wish I had normal tastes so that I didn't have to go on to a niche site to meet someone (and then find that everyone lives a zillion miles away)

It would make life a lot easier if I were more conventional in tastes because I could just switch on tinder or whatever and meet someone with a lot more ease and not have to worry about if someone had the same kinks as me.


Yeah, I get this.

get rid of your kink?8 months

Our sexuality is not a "kink;" we are the fEw lucky normal people; everyone else is f--ked up. Only a few people are born with conventionally attractive faces and only a few people are born with normal sexuality. A lot of people believe that the earth is flat, that the Holocaust never happened, that enough modern American TV is interesting enough to justify having TV service, and all kinds of other crazy crap. Think about it.

get rid of your kink?8 months

When I was a schoolboy, I felt the same way. I wondered why I was so weird.

Now I know I'm mad and I LOVE it.
The world can thank people like us later.

get rid of your kink?8 months

I'd get rid of it in a heartbeat. Yeah, it's fucking great when you can find a fulfilling relationship with someone who's compatible in this regard... But that's, unfortunately, not an easy thing to find.

As far as I can see, these are the only options:
1.) Find a feedee and hope I can love them for(hopefully)ever.
2.) Find someone I can love forever, and hope that they're willing to gain.
2A.) Be in a happy, sexually satisfying relationship (if only it were so easy).
or
2B.) Be in a good relationship and have an eternally shitty sex life.

I wish it wasn't such a niche thing. I don't know if it's possible to make someone enjoy gaining if they weren't born enjoying it. I won't push someone to do something they don't want to do, but it does put me in a very disappointing and frustrating corner.

get rid of your kink?8 months

I had the misfortune of falling in love before I made the self-discovery about my fat affinity...
So I'm dating a girl on a quest to run a marathon by the fall.
It's not the fat part that I dislike about the kink, but the incompatibility. I so badly wish I could be more attracted to my shrinking fianc�, or that my she could be more attracted to growing me.

get rid of your kink?8 months

Honestly I wouldn't get rid of it, however if I did it would make explaining my asexuality much easier. For me its all gaining lifestyle and aesthetic preferences, even the people I find stunningly gorgeous are a matter of aesthetics and not sexual attraction. So yeah not being associated with a fetish would make things easier but it would make my desire to be fat much more isolating.

get rid of your kink?6 months

I would, as it's just kind of been holding me down a little bit (not literally, no pun intended)

get rid of your kink?6 months

I really don't think I would. I do have my wavering moments (mainly when something I really like and want to wear doesn't fit), but I really don't think there's anything weird or wrong with it. I see too many good-looking bhm to think there is anything wrong with it.

get rid of your kink?6 months

It would turn me into a completely different person. My fetish is a big part of me and I just can't think of how I would be without it.

get rid of your kink?5 months

Yes, yes, yes.. unfortunately, it makes me feel like I'm living a lie when I'm with a partner who isn't into this stuff at all, because usually I don't tell them for fear of losing their interest. If I could just be into "normal" stuff, it would be so much easier. .but I only really get aroused from someone who loves my fat, so that part sucks. If I did have a feeder though, I really wouldn't care and would love and embrace my fetish

get rid of your kink?2 months

Gettingfatter:
Nope.

No way I would deny my own pleasures.

Dragonfly:
But if the kink no longer existed, it wouldn't be pleasurable, though, right? You wouldn't be denying yourself anything, as you'd no longer desire it.


maybe, but you'd also not be you. Invariably, your kinks are a part of you, they've affected the way you think and who you are

get rid of your kink?2 months

Maybe. It would make dating a LOT easier

get rid of your kink?2 months

Ponkdonk:
If you had the chance to change from a feeder/feedee/gainer/FA into a guy/girl without an interest in "Feedism", would you lose your kink to be like every one else?


Whom "everyone else" , especially?

get rid of your kink?2 months

You can't get rid of a kink.
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