Most women are not into gaining weight. When we hang out here, we tend to forget that. I'm not sure how or why you ended up with someone who isn't big, but you will probably either need to accept her as not large, or move on to the next person. For now, you can emphasize the fact that you didn't mind dating fat women. As time goes on, you can admit to preferring them. But you will need to both accept being with a smaller women, and assuring her that you are OK with someone smaller.
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