AestheticLeg:
100% Agree with August. Gain because YOU want to gain, or don't gain at all. Because the last thing you want to do is go through a full body transformation in hopes of finding a partner, and then feeling unhappy about your body later on.
Good advice!
Another way to look at it: Gain because you want to be bigger. Don't associate this fetish with attaining (or changing) a relationship. If it fits in with your relationship, great - but relationships are so much more, and fat fetishism will only ever be a minor part of that.
Gain only because it's your desire - don't expect it will fix anything else in your life!
6 years