Kinda hard not to, in my case.
Long-ago friend (LAF), meeting up with me for the first time in years: “So, [given name], what’ve you been up to for the past decade?”
Me: “Most of the time writing fatlovesex romance/erotica novels, with a few novellas, novelettes, and the occasional short story.”
LAF: silence, usually. Or they change the subject. In reality i ask about them in return, to give them an easy and quick out.
Everyone in my family with whom i’m in any sort of contact has known for years that i can’t help loving very fat women and/or women at peace with or preferably enjoying getting fatter.
While i can’t recall his exact response, my primary care physician was all “Shut uuuuup about how much you love fat women already! I get it!”
So yeah, most people who know me in any way well know at least the gist of it.
3 years
