How can i convince my parents that i really want to gain

Slim7833:
They don't approve or want to help with the process cause of the cost and the card worried about my health but I want this and I want to gain up to 50lbs before December if possible


To convince your parents, approach the topic calmly and respectfully, showing that you are thinking about your health. Explain that you plan to do it in a controlled way, with proper and consistent nutrition, and that your goal is not just to gain weight but also to maintain a healthy body. You could suggest involving a nutritionist or doctor to ensure the process is safe. If they see that you are planning carefully and have knowledge and readiness, they will be much more open. Additionally, show them that gaining weight is very important to you emotionally and that it’s a life goal that brings you happiness.

Also, gaining about 50 pounds in three months is almost impossible in a healthy way. To gain that much weight in a short time, you would need to consume enormous calorie surpluses every day, which could lead to serious health problems (like strain on the heart, liver, pancreas, diabetes, high cholesterol, digestive issues, etc.).

In reality, healthy weight gain is about 1-2 ibs per week, which means in three months you could gain roughly 13–26 ibs in a healthy way. If you want to gain as much as possible relatively safely, you should focus on couple things:
Eat more calories than you burn, mainly from calorie-dense foods like avocado, nuts, peanut butter, pasta, rice, whole breads, and healthy oils.
Protein: Important for building muscle, not just fat – eggs, milk, cheese, meat, legumes.
Frequent meals: Eat every 2–3 hours, including healthy snacks.
Calorie-rich drinks: Shakes with milk, protein, fruits, peanut butter.
Light strength training: So that the added weight includes muscle, not just fat.

In conclusion, you can realistically and relatively safely gain 13–26 ibs by December. Trying to gain 50 ibs in such a short period is unsafe and harmful to your health. you might gain 50 ibs from 6 to 12 months, which is more realistic.

GOOD LUCK!
3 months

Best simple gainer shake

Karma3425:
Oh yea you right lol 🤣🤣🤣

Ingredients:

2 cups of heavy cream - Approx. 1,600 calories (For a lighter option, you can use whole milk, but heavy cream brings in those extra calories!)

1 cup of full-fat ice cream - Approx. 500 calories (Choose a calorie-dense flavor like cookie dough or peanut butter for maximum indulgence!)

1 ripe banana - Approx. 105 calories (Adds natural sweetness and creamy texture)

1 cup of peanut butter - Approx. 1,500 calories (The heavyweight champion of calorie boosters)

1/2 cup of Nutella - Approx. 600 calories (Or use chocolate syrup for an equally rich option)

1/2 cup of oats - Approx. 150 calories (Adds fiber and extra carbs)

2 tablespoons of honey - Approx. 120 calories (Sweet, sticky, and full of energy)

1/4 cup of powdered milk - Approx. 150 calories (Packs in extra protein and calories)

Whipped cream (as much as you like for topping) - Approx. 100 calories per serving (The more, the better!)

Optional: 2 scoops of mass gainer - Approx. 500-1,000 calories (depending on the brand; the ultimate calorie boost)


I’m going to try this 🤓😋
3 months

I think it was easier to get fat in the past

OhHey:
All the places turning health conscious and making sure their menu is under a certain amount of saturated fats and calories makes wg hard.

I miss the days where you could get a salad that was 700+ calories. Back in the 90's and 00's, a Southwest Grilled Chicken Salad from Mcdonalds contained over 730 calories! (Now its just 350)

Also, I used to get the chicken fried steak meal from ihop that was over 1000 calories. It was really good too. Now its been nixed. RIP.

What are some menu items/places that you miss or remember that used to help you put on the weight?

Munchies:
I think some of these issues are location-specific. When I'm at (one state north of you), I can buy the IHOP chicken-fried steak meal. In fact, there are a lot of places where I live where you can buy a meal for well over 1,500 calories. But I live in a fairly rural area, so that may have an impact on this.

I will say it's more expensive to gain weight - especially past a certain point. Not just the food, but also having to size up when you outgrow things.

BigBallBellyGirl:
It's absolutely more expensive. My household food budget is probably average for a family of two, maybe a little more because I'm making a concerted effort to eat healthy, and vegetables are costly. But when I was gaining, our food budget was our biggest expense. Additionally, having a dress made for someone my size costs around $250. My feet have also grown too wide for regular shoes. I only have one nice pair appropriate for wearing out.

Reality is hard. We're well educated and successfully employed, but most assuredly middle to upper middle class income-wise. But my size still taxes our budget, even with "normal" food expenses.

Munchies:
Money is the ultimate reason why most people stop gaining - even more than health, comfort, or peer pressure. At some point, it gets hard to afford.

FattyBeefPatty:
Man, how come the moment I’m committed to gaining everything’s gotta be so expensive 😔

Munchies:
Truly unfair


Indeed, same with me. I was gaining weight really fast but now I’m gaining much slower due the food costs, everything is just too expensive
3 months

Calories in one sitting

BigBallBellyGirl:
I've always wondered about the accuracy of so-called calorie absorption caps. As someone who has a lifetime of experience gaining, stuffing, and overeating, I've frequently consumed more than the body is supposedly able to metabolize. As an example, I consumed 90,000 calories over two days during the 2023 Thanksgiving holiday. My weight temporarily increased by 29 pounds. Based on the maximum amount of calories a body is theoretically able to store as fat, I should have settled around a 9 pound gain after digestion and loss of water weight. I didn't. 19 pounds stuck... not to mention, I stretched my stomach (I believe permanently) and set off a massive holiday weight gain over the next few weeks.

That is really impressive
3 months

Hi, i'm looking for a feeder who make me immobile

Could be great in the short run, but I do prefer to meet in person , good luck!
3 months

Kik group

Sounds nice, we need more places to share our kinks
3 months

Dreams of immobility

Roosterman89:
I just woke up from a dream where I was immobile, and now I’m turned on and unable to sleep 😭


Take it as a glimpse to the future hehe, no need to feel upset just embrace your kink, it’s totally fine
3 months

When did you know you were getting fat? 🍩📈

Honestly, I think I really knew I was getting fat when my shirts started feeling smaller and my belly began covering my legs. And that heavy feeling throughout the day just wouldn’t go away. Also even standing up, my stomach sticks out so much that I bump into things because I don’t calculate my real size right anymore. Damn, I’ve gotten so fat haha.
3 months

Is it time to encourage obesity?

Noah Boart:
I agree, but what if we aks9 promoted being plus size not with gluttony, but with both an accumulation of body shaping and muscle to help keep fat away from hearts and arteries?

There is technically already a sub-sect of lifters who do this. We turn bad health to a new type of body building

Munchies:
Something to point out here: health is only a subsection of fatphobia. You can be an Olympic-level power lifter, and people will still shit on you about your size.

I love obesity as much as the next feeder, but sadly, it's not so simple to eradicate fatphobia. I don't say this to discourage you. I support anything that seeks to push back against any form of bigotry. I only say this because a narrow focus on the issue will leave you vulnerable to attacks from other angles.

LuvsChub04:
Agree,N on a side note Munchies,i met a power lifter few years ago. Very fit yet people still said she was obese... Yet BMIS are another story..
Fatphobia will always exist, same for skinny shaming as well.. Nothing will ever stop it on either side...

Munchies:
Hell, you can be thin and still deal with fatphobia. I remember my mom fat shaming me as a child because I went from 115 to 120 at 5'7". I was 15. Apparently going from the high end of being underweight to the low end of being normal weight made me fat? Idk

Health is truly only one aspect of fatphobia.

Enas:
There are many complex issues in this world, fatphobia is not one of them.

There isn't a health aspect to fatphobia. There is only a perception aspect and a historical/social aspect to it really, because it is entierly a result of behaving on unfiltered -and to be frank, of very bad quality- perception, plus the fact that our current society has decided that fat is "bad" and "ugly" (as opossed to what it had decided for fat, 2 centuries ago, for example).

On a side-note, my own mother has called my gym-rat brother (a very muscular person), "obese".

Munchies:
Wait until you hear about medical fatphobia


Haha, exactly! There’s so much of it. Hell, I wasn’t fat until recently, and after I met my feeder, she was making me huge meals and I gained weight very fast so it was very noticeable, I got fatphobic comments from doctors a lot , even though I coming for entirely different reasons not related to my growing weight at all.
So yeah, there is fatophobia everywhere .
Well, screw them. I just laugh and stuff my mouth with huge hamburger 😅😋
3 months

Calories in one sitting

Milanesa:
I know that there's a limit on how many calories one can consume before they stop being absorbed
But does this apply in a smaller time frame? Like, 2k in one sitting might be too much?


There isn’t a strict “shut-off” point where your body just stops absorbing calories. If you throw down 2,000 calories in one sitting, you’ll digest almost all of it, it just takes longer. Your stomach slows things down, and the food can sit there for hours while enzymes and bile break it down bit by bit.

Now, when it comes to speed, and I studied it for my own accord: on average, the small intestine can absorb somewhere around 100-150 grams of carbs per hour, 20-30 grams of protein per hour, and maybe 10-20 grams of fat per hour. That’s roughly 600-800 calories max absorbed each hour. If you eat way more than that at once, your body doesn’t throw it away, it just spreads digestion out over several hours. That’s why a huge meal feels heavy and can take all day to fully process. In the end, unless you hit the extreme of making yourself sick, most of those calories are still getting stored, often as fat
3 months
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