With you it’s only a matter of time 🤓

oh! i love this question! so just eat more then usually. feel stuffed? don't mind it, push more into yourself. feeling stress? take that ice cream. feeling happy? finish those chocolate, so basically drown your feelings with sweets. in time, that will make you really huge.

first of all, welcome! i'm glad your bf is open and ready to gain weight for you, as a feedee myself with experiance with female feeders, as long as you are constant it will be okay, but what kind of mistakes you talking about?

In my opinion, the definition of SSBBW/SSBHM is less about a number on the scale and more about the physical sensation and the space you occupy.

I think the line is crossed when your stomach truly starts to 'interfere' with simple actions, or when the biggest clothes in your closet start feeling like a tight second skin. That’s the moment you realize you aren’t just 'big' anymore, but in a completely different category of mass.

For me, it’s always about pizza. The most extreme case was during a holiday dinner at my grandma’s - she’s the type who doesn't let a single crumb go to waste and always overfeeds everyone. I ate such astronomical amounts of food that I could physically feel myself bloating; I was so stuffed I could barely breathe.

Another time, I just ordered an excessive number of family-sized pizzas for myself. I actually managed to polish off three whole pies on my own! The feeling afterward was a mix of 'wow, I can't believe I just did that' and an extreme, inexplicable level of fullness.

Hell yeah

Correct

i understand why you like it, but all those ai videos... it's just feels not right, i dont know

i can only share my view, as I’ve been gaining weight, I’ve definitely noticed my legs getting much heavier and thicker, and that tired feeling is real. It’s a bit of a trade-off because I love the massive look and the solid feel of my thighs filling out, but the pressure on the lower legs can get intense.

from my experience, elevation is the most effective thing. I try to keep my legs up for at least 20 minutes a few times a day; it really helps move that fluid back and takes the 'stinging' pressure off the ankles.

but don't overlook hydration. It sounds backward, but drinking more water actually helps your body flush out the excess sodium that causes the buildup in the first place. I’ve started being more mindful of my salt intake while keeping my calories high, and it’s made the 'heavy leg' feeling much more manageable and less painful.

There's something incredibly satisfying about looking down and seeing how much more space my legs take up now, but you’ve got to take care of the circulation so you can keep growing comfortably

Some really solid advice here. I totally agree that gut health and digestion are game-changers,it’s not just about how much you stuff, but how much actually sticks!

my best tip is to focus on calorie density that you actually enjoy. I’ve found that incorporating heavy cream into meals (not just drinking it straight) makes a massive difference without making the struggle feel like a chore.

Honestly, the 'payoff' is what keeps me going. so, stick with it! Once those gains start showing and your clothes start screaming, you won’t want to stop.