I would read it!

I would say any tight clothes, seeing the stretched fabric on her is such a turn on

Welcome to the club, man!
I totally get that 'growth pain.' The thing is that your belly is expand faster than your lower back muscles can adapt to the new weight pulling you forward.

Since losing weight is obviously NOT the goal here, here is how you handle the pain while keeping every single pound of that soft new mass

Your mom thinks you need to exercise, but what you actually need is 'structural support' for that new gut. A tight compression tank top under your clothes acts like an internal harness. It helps hold your belly in place so it doesn't 'tug' on your spine as much when you walk to Uni. It’s a lifesaver for the lower back.

That thing you’re doing with your glutes is actually a legit move called a 'Posterior Pelvic Tilt.' When we gain fast, we tend to arch our backs too much to balance the weight, which causes that sharp pain. You don't have to look ridiculous; just focus on keeping your pelvis level rather than letting the belly pull your spine into a curve.

Also, walking long distances with a heavy pack while your body is trying to adjust to 20+ lbs of new fat is a recipe for a blown-out back. If you can, switch to a rolling bag or leave stuff at the Uni. If you must carry it, make sure the straps are tight and high on your back.

And while you don’t need 'abs,' you do need a strong 'wall' to hold the mass. Do a couple of 60-second planks a day. It won't burn off your progress, but it will strengthen the deep muscles that support your spine so you can keep growing without the agony.

Get some high-cushion sneakers. It makes a massive difference when you're carrying extra weight.

Don't let the pain discourage you or make you listen to your mom's 'diet' talk. It’s just your body learning how to carry its new, softer self.

Keep feeding that appetite and just be a bit smarter about how you carry the load! Good luck with the journey to becoming a total hog.

yummy!

Wow, seems like a dream come true! if only I could meet someone like you in real life, haha!

in my humble opinion, better fatten up naturally by increasing portions, instead of pushing into yourself all those powders.

must say, didn't thought about mayonnaise as an ingredient for gaining, you give me an exiting idea! hahaha

Welcome, Veemars!

Honestly, your partner is a lucky guy. As a male feedee myself who spent most of his life thin and is now on a journey to get as huge as possible, I can tell you: we want you to push us.

Don't be embarrassed. Most of us gainers find it incredibly hot when our partners take an interest in our growth. If he already has a sweet tooth, he’s probably going to love the extra attention (and the baking!).

Regarding the shirt—maybe just tell him how much you love the way his new curves look and that he shouldn't hide them? Positive reinforcement works wonders.

I’d love to hear more about his progress. There’s nothing better than 'happy relationship weight' turning into something much more massive!

I wish I had female feeder now haha

Well, that "not full but feeling gross" middle ground is the worst. It’s like your brain is ready to keep going, but your stomach is throwing a localized tantrum.

If you’re out of ginger, there are a few tricks you can use to settle things down so you can get back to it. First off, temperature and posture matter more than you’d think. If you’re sitting hunched over or reclined in a way that compresses your midsection, stand up and pace slowly. It sounds simple, but getting vertical helps gas move and lets gravity assist your digestion. While you're doing that, try sipping on some warm,not ho, water. Cold water can sometimes shock a sensitive stomach, but warm water acts like a heating pad from the inside out, helping those muscles relax.

If you have any peppermint around, whether it’s tea or even just a piece of gum, that’s usually my go-to after ginger. Peppermint oil is a natural antispasmodic, so it stops those "crampy" waves that make you feel like you’re going to be sick.

Another weird but effective trick is to nibble on something incredibly bland and dry, like a plain cracker or a bit of white bread. It acts like a sponge for excess stomach acid that might be causing that "off" feeling.

It’s definitely not just in your head. Gaining it back the second time usually hits the gut way faster because of how the tissue memory works. Honestly, the 'rebound' gain usually looks way more prominent because your body is just soaking everything up. So, that 30 lbs since December is clearly going straight to the right spot. Since those fat cells were already stretched out before, they ‘refill’ much easier. Plus, you probably have less muscle now than you did at 250, so the weight is just pure, soft volume.

You’re probably going to look way bigger at this time than you ever did back in 2021!