Wifey and I have dealt with the more common hernias recently. I had one down around my left pelvic area repaired just two years ago. Got it from coughing incessantly after I caught my child’s cold. She’s had two in her belly just in a year’s time. Not even all the added fat in her belly the past several years could keep the deeply buried muscle from giving way.

Not uncommon for women to eschew typical ladies undies for other options. Whatever is comfy, I say.

I wear boxer briefs because its light and comfy most of the time. My wife wears wears lightly fitting but thin-material pants to bed. She only recently (and finally) found some plus-size panties to go under her work dresses during the day. For years, she didn’t wear undies at all because she had long gotten too heavy and wide for most sizes.

Also, when you can’t scratch your own back anymore because you’ve gotten too big around your middle to reach most scratches :-)

No hernia here, but it’s quite common for a belly button to change shape or depth due to weight gain. Mine is still an innie but it’s shallower than it used to be.

That sounds awesome 👍 I’m the husband in a similar, gradual, let-it-happen-slowly gaining type of vibe. Keep up the lovely-sounding progress!

Heavy cream and half-&-half (its cheaper twin) are best in creamy sauces to stretch the stock to another day. Wifey and I use it in Alfredo and related creamy or cheesy sauces. Add lemon juice to balance the overall taste.

It would site leave a mark if I wore my pants at my belly button. Reason I wear them below it. Wifey is always wearing her work pants at mid-belly, which just serves to emphasize the separation between her lower and upper bellies 😁

It’s how mutual gaining is done 👍

Joined and it’s an awesome site 👍

They need to accept you at any weight. Period! 👍