I turned my boyfriend into a feedee lol

Angelhoney:
My bf and I have been dating for over 7 yrs now, he’s tall (6’3) and handsome, when we first started dating he was pretty skinny! We started dating right after high school for reference.

Over the years I’ve introduced him to my fetish, which he accepted but at first wasn’t super into. Honestly, I mainly am interested in the fantasy of me gaining weight but I love to see others indulge as well.

I’ve fed him a ton of hearty home cooked southern meals. He always bragged about how good my cooking was, and how good his metabolism was. He loves junk food, his favorite meal is pizza or anything fried and he’s obsessed with soda. I knew his slim waistline couldn’t last long once he started drinking beers pretty consistently a couple years ago.

He’s about to turn 26 and I’ve managed to help give him a pre-dad bod. It’s soo hot to me and he likes to tease me about it!!! He joked that I just want him bigger and that he eats more for me.

I love his soft chest and how he almost has moobs. He has a pretty soft ass too lol. I’m bisexual so he jokes to me about how his ass is fat like a girls, and it turns me on.. He has a permanent muffin top in all his clothes, he wears XL shirts but we both notice how the swell of his belly pokes out in all his clothes now.

I’m seriously not writing fiction! I’m just aroused and feeling grateful for my boyfriend and wanted to give anyone hope in a relationship that wants to practice their fetish- I was terrified to share my fetish with my boyfriend at first. He slowly accepted the notions of it and we had some awkward sex sessions messing around with it but now it’s awesome.

We still divulge in my own fantasies of gaining weight some times but the spotlight is definitely on him right now. I always thought feeder turned feedee stories are hot and it happened to him and I might let go one day with him and get fat.

For right now though, I like the difference between our bodies. I’ve always been the one in the relationship that actually likes working out (he dislikes doing so, at a point he was only working out his arms but never his abs so he could ‘keep the belly’). I swear he’s such a fatty, if it wasn’t for his metabolism that is slowly eroding with age he’d be huge right now.


thanks for sharing this, it's wonderful to hear about experiences like this.

too much of the time people dating in this community seem to focus on "i need to find a feeder," rather than finding someone they just genuinely really like! if you can find someone that you are compatible with, that you can trust and can fall in love with, that is soooo much more important than anything else.

similar to your experience, my partner was not aware of this feedist world at all, she just liked fat guys. and i think once you can get to trust someone, and they're not pushing their fetish on you, but just giving you a window into it, it allows a person to see it through the other's eyes, in a way.

wishing you two all the best, and many more pounds in the future! smiley
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Surviving the heatwave - a fat person's guide to staying cool

this is a great thread - thanks for all the advice. it is especially necessary now!
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My lovely gf and i have thought about creating content - what do you all think of her ?

she has a great figure! and cat people are generally great people. smiley thanks for sharing.
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Flaxseed for thicker moobs

Letsmakemegrow:
Does that work, or are there other tips? I want nice hanging moobs.


i think all of us who gain a lot of weight wish the distribution of fat went to different places. i, too, would have preferred to have grown bigger moobs. i met another 400+ lb fellow at a local meet a couple of years ago, and honestly i was jealous of his huge chest.

sadly, moob growth is mostly genetic and the result of the ratio of testosterone and estrogen.

this article references a specific person who may have caused his breast growth because of daily flaxseed oil - but it isn't something you want, his case was a tumour (non-cancerous):

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7733082/
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Make account, delete account - i can’t keep up!

Fatgirlbelly:
Honestly, what is the deal with the amount of accounts being made, message being sent and then account deleted. I can’t keep up! They’ll have deleted the account before I’ve had a chance to read most messages. I just logged on and 3 people out of 4 in the top of my inbox are gone 🤷‍♀️


it's a good reason to quote someone's post (as i have here). when the user deletes their account, their posts disappear but the responses remain, and it's very confusing when reading through an old thread!

i wish the content stayed and their name/avatar was just removed.
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I'm gay, but there are a lot of things i don't like about men.

Stockylove:
Hello everyone, honestly, I posted this here because I didn't know where else to write this topic, but I think "general discussions" is still appropriate.

Anyway, I needed to share this bitterness and disappointment I feel about men. I've always been attracted to men "in theory," but... I don't know, there are a lot of things I don't like about them, in terms of their mentality and behavior, and ultimately, I even find women better than men in many ways. I think, and perhaps I hope, that you can change my mind about my perspective (which may be partly biased or even wrong, I hope so). I also want to say that I am absolutely not a misandrist, and I hope not to offend any other men who read my post; that's not my intention.

But yes, when I think about the type of man I like, or the qualities I would like in a man, I imagine a mature, empathetic man who listens to others, and I see that all these qualities are more prevalent in women than in men. And there are many more things like that, and points that I find problematic with men and that I find women better at. But it would take too long to list them all. But I find that, on a human level, women have far more qualities that could make me fall in love than men. Unfortunately, I'm a gay man, and I hope I'll meet a man like that someday. I've generally been disappointed by the mentality of men in my life. I know it's linked to social norms, gendered upbringing, and the toxic masculinity we've been taught. But I find it sad; I have the impression that the kind of man who could appeal to me is very, very rare.


i can totally understand your perspective. i am bi, having fallen for a guy in my 20s after years in heterosexual relationships. i spent about a decade exclusively in relationships with cis males.

during that time i spent a lot of time in the vibrant gay community here, and i was an athletic gym dude. that scene includes examples which are probably the worst case of what you describe.

generalizations are always rough, though. as others have mentioned, regardless of gender it's hard to find someone that you're attracted to, who is attracted to you, and who shares all those other qualities.

don't give up hope, though - it's totally possible. my match found me, and we've been together for five years now. just stay hopeful and positive and it will happen!
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