BigPrincess23:
I would like to be ruined in every way possible. I want a feeder who will do their darkest and most depraved fantasies on me against my will.
I always am intrigued by this dynamic — the desire to fulfill another’s wicked fantasies being your own fantasy.
This is a disturbing — and hot! — discussion.
1 year
MitchHedberg:
A while back I read some posts from a user on here who confessed to "ruining men" by getting them addicted to the fattening lifestyle so much that it they become essentially useless and lose their partners,jobs, etc.
It was very dark but also quite a hot read and I'm wondering if anyone knows who that user was or where I can find those posts?
Back to the original post.
Has anyone found these posts? I’d love to read them.
1 year
LoraDayton:I love elements like this! Like gosh, of *course* they like me as I am and just want to see me healthy! HEAS, no-bad-foods, anti-diet culture, etc... all the while their reassurances that my sudden extra bulkage isn't in fact, a bad sign of my progress!
Little do I know!
I love your enthusiasm for this, Lora.
You should write it.
And what does HEAS stand for? I tried looking it up but nothing seems right.
Happily Ever After Status?
1 year
AskDrFeeder:
How about this feedist flag shirt? (From a story written by me, illustrated by CyrelleX, and posted on DeviantArt):
I’m imagining this flag on everything from trucker’s caps to bikinis to barbecue aprons.
Doc, where can we find all your stories? I’d love to read them all again. You were my favorite writer decades back. I don’t remember this one with the flag.
(Oh??? Reading more carefully now. You’ve got a deviant art page!!)
1 year
Thanks for providing some insight on the topic. That definitely helps me feel a bit better.
This is why I started going after guys into extreme weight gain. They don't lose weight when you show interest in them and love it when you make them fatter.
HueOrdner:
But where do I find those guys? There are some Austrian feedees at the forum here, but after chatting for a bit most turned out to be weird or creepy, so I never met a feedee in the country I live in.
Munchies:
Feel that. I've met one Austrian feedee that was pretty cool, but he has a girl friend and is no longer on the site.
You may want to expand your search to nearby countries. Alternatively, you can go after guys that really love to eat. Maybe bond over it too.
Maybe take a cooking class that has men attending as well as women. You might also visit your local brewery or pub or anywhere people gather to eat and drink. Volunteer to work at a festival or with a nonprofit food truck or cafe. You may find others there who enjoy the pleasures of food and drink without dieting.
Or join a food coop. People there talk about the joys of cooking and recipes.
I don’t know how helpful this suggestion might be but anyway, there it is.
1 year
I am also interested. My stories are here. I’d like a chance to edit any of them for this project.
1 year
Fat On The Inside:
Mine has never gotten too deep, but I’m not a big belly gainer. The weight goes to my breasts first and then my bottom half…the middle is saved for last. Lol. But I DREAM about having a deep belly button for some good play. Maybe one day when I don’t need to be as mobile…there’s still time.
I love your attitude— or should I say I love your fattitude?
There’s still time to grow so much belly fat that your belly button becomes as deep as you desire! Just imaginiNg that much extra softness on you makes my heart beat faster.
Best to you on your journey.
1 year
DeathFeedeealt:
This has been one of my most consistent fantasies as far back as I remember
In the words from Rocky Horror:
“Don’t dream it. Be it.”
1 year
HanSelo:
Keen to hear from people who gave in to their desires in middle age.
I’m in my mid forties. I’ve hovered around 235lbs since COVID, with occasional indulgent growth spurts, followed by dieting and cardio. A classic yoyo dieter I guess.
I feel like I’m at a crossroads, however, and that I really need to commit to one set of priorities or the other. Either I put everything into the strength and fitness basket, and enjoy a ripped late-forties, or I give in completely to that constant nagging voice, and get fat.
Has anyone else waited until middle age to let go?
Fatluvinguy:
Since you can't decide which way to go, why not do both. I've seen plenty of pics here and elswhere of guys who have a bigger gut, but it's obvious they are still working out with the weights, judging by their arms and chests. I mean you wouldn't have the ripped look of a pure bodybuilder, but you'd have plenty of bulk. The best of both worlds really. Just a thought. Good luck.
AnorexicPretty:
Seconding what Fatluvinguy said here. Big muscles AND big gut? That’s perfection.
My muscles aren’t huge but neither is my gut. But I do feel better about my looks having some muscle as I fatten up.
Perfection? I’m not there.
Not yet.
1 year
“Middle-age spread” is a thing and basically expected and accepted in our society.
There’s no such thing as “teenage spread”.
You’ve gotten to the age when your metabolism just naturally slows down.
Just enjoy life and good food, and let nature do her handiwork.
1 year
