Being too fat for intercourse

Captain Cake:
To start with, this is a serious question and I'm very curious about it, particularly when it comes to men as I have somewhat a personal experience of it to some level.

For those of you who are super fat men (or dating/partners of super fat men), has there been a point at which standard, penetrative sex has become impossible without the use of toys or other additions to make it work? I'm aware that every man is equipped differently and fat distribution plays a big part, but I'm generally curious about it. Is there a point where you've tried and then had to basically say "okay, this isn't going to work anymore so we'll have to do things another way from now on"?


That’s a really thoughtful and real question. Yes, there definitely comes a point where traditional penetrative sex can become challenging or even impossible, depending on the size and how fat is distributed. For some, it means adapting, using toys, trying different positions, or exploring non-penetrative intimacy.

I think it’s part of the journey of being comfortable in your body and figuring out what works best. Often, it’s not the end of the world but rather an opportunity to discover new ways of closeness and pleasure. Every relationship is unique, and communication between partners is key to finding what fits best for both.
4 months

Women who want to be extremely obese or immobile

CatgirlEva:
I'm pretty big already, but I absolutely want to get fatter. At my current size, I'm having trouble standing up, but I see it as part of the package. Do I want to be immobile? I really don't know. Yes? No? Maybe? I guess if it happens, then it happens. I do, however, want to be a minimum of 500lbs.


Wow It sounds like you’re on a wild and inspiring journey with your body, and it’s fascinating to see how open you are about the dilemmas, challenges, and desire to keep growing.

I have to admit, I am no woman but if I had a real feeder who took control over me and fattened me up however she wanted, I’d be ready to balloon without a second thought. Even up to 800 ibs or more. There’s something addictive about being that fat, so dependent, under the hands (and the cooking!) of someone who dedicates herself to the process. The idea that she’s cooking, feeding, pushing one more bite and snack after another… until I can barely move, it’s just insane. Feels like a fantasy I wouldn’t say no to.

What’s the most exciting part of the 500-pound goal for you? The physical sensation? The dependence? The transformation in how you look? Or maybe something totally emotional?
4 months

For the female feeders out there

What was the exact moment you realized you loved the power of making someone bigger for you? Not just the kink. Not just the play. But the raw, intoxicating thrill of control. of watching someone surrender, bite after bite, pound after pound. because you wanted it.

Was there a turning point? A moment that lit something up in you: dominance, nurture, lust, obsession, even love? What changed in you when feedism became more than just fantasy?

I’m not just asking about logistics, I’m asking about the fire behind it. If you’ve felt it, you know exactly what I mean.

Let’s talk about that.
4 months

Any methods or techniques of feeders

Ball Belly Craig:
I'm just curious to know all of your methods/techniques/experiments all you feeders would like to or have tried out on a small feeder smiley


Honestly, it's different every time and depends on the dynamic. Sometimes it's soft encouragement with little treats throughout the day, just gently making sure they're always a bit full, a bit spoiled. Other times it's more playful with teasing them about how snug their clothes are getting or how heavy they're starting to feel in my lap.

I love using food as a way to connect: slow, indulgent meals, feeding bites by hand, or surprise desserts that just magically appear after they've said they're full. And of course, praising every little change, from the tighter waistline to the growing appetite. It's all about making them feel safe, adored, and deliciously out of control. Some days it’s subtle, other days it’s a feast. Depends on the mood and how greedy they’re feeling.
4 months

Cute clothes

PolarbearLife:
Does anyone know of a site or store that sell cute clothes sized 5x or bigger? I've been looking but most stop at 4x


hi!
Try eloquii
eloquii.com/
or universal standard
https://www.universalstandard.com.I also heard that Catherines have a solid collection
https://www.catherines.com
I hope something from these could fit.
4 months

Gaining is my greatest decision so far.

Helveticus:
I wish you all the best on your journey, and thank you for the kind and encouraging words!

You goal weight is one I aspire too, in my still under control unrealistic aspirations.

I must say that I shared because it took me more than 20 years to finally take the small steps towards fatness. Don't miss out like I did. Even if I started 10 years ago, I'd be significantly fatter and my confidence would be much higher.

It sounds like regrets, but I'm also happy I finally did it at all. So if what I wrote here could help someone take the step right now, they might enjoy it longer.

Getting intentionally fatter is a serious step to think about in depth, but if someone's only reason not to do it is apprehension-based, baby steps to dip your toe in the feedee mindset are easier to undo than regretting not doing it at all.


well said, mate.
4 months

Feeding by committee

MeanNLean:
One idea I thought might make online feeding a little more palatable is stuffing by committee. Getting a group of 5 or so feedees together to really push a feedee through some regular intense stuffings.

Growing pigs can take a lot of food, so spreading around the costs would help really fatten up a hog extra effectively.

That’s for sure. Sounds hot
5 months

Getting fat on a budget

nah man! it's hard to fatten up like this smiley
5 months

Revealing bellies in public

Morbidly A Beast:
Most of my shirts cover my belly I buy them like that but even still sometimes shit just rides up and more likely than not I’m probably the last one to notice

>tfw you gross someone out with your belly hanging out and you have no idea why they’re making faces until you realize your shirt rode up revealing your soft belly for all the world to see


I totally get that! Happens to me all the time too, shirts sneak up and suddenly my belly’s on full display without me even noticing. It’s funny how people react before you even realize what’s going on. Just part of the charm of having a soft belly, I guess!
5 months
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