I have not given up control at all yet, but could definitely see myself as that kind of person. I would love to see where it went..
4 years
I wouldn’t mind getting to know a female feeder as a friend or encourager.
4 years
@bubblebutt I have had some slight tendency’s.. like loving masculine women and pegging... it’s a lot of conflicting emotions..
4 years
It’s almost depressing.. but this kink is part of me, so I have to keep looking or I’ll never know..
4 years
So for a long time I’ve wanted to fatten up a woman.i find it sexy. But then I changed and wanted a woman to fatten me instead. But I’ve got such negative reactions for regular sites or just ignored that I’ve really given up. Most people that message me want money of some sort. But then the other day I was board and heard about grommr. I have gotten more compliments, and encouragement in 24 hours than I have ever got from straight sights... I was amazed. I don’t know.. everyone is so nice there! I might just be bi!
4 years
Everyone calm down. I can understand what the op is saying. It’s hard to find someone that’s into feederism. We don’t exactly have the best dating sites that aren’t empty, pay schemes or toxic.. it’s easier to find a vanilla person and just see what they are comfortable with. They don’t want sneaky... Like talking your type of dirty, seeing if they will let you gain a little. It’s really hard to tell what you can do without knowing the person. I would sit down and talk about it with your significant other. Good luck.
4 years
Personally, I find the ambiguity and conflicting feelings to be part of the allure of this fetish.
Maybe it speaks to us in tempting words that leave us hungry for the fattening lifestyle.
I personally don’t think you can fight it. This is not like alcoholism or heroin addiction where you can try to avoid the addictive substances and fellow addicts.
Food is everywhere, and so is fat. Restaurant and food commercials practically scream, “Eat until you can eat no more!” And there are always people around offering food and drink. This is how we care for each other, offering the comforts of barbecues, picnics, potlucks, desserts.
What can you do if you really don’t want to gain “too much”? I suggest embracing the fantasy aspects of all this and occasionally giving free reign to that little demon inside your brain telling you to just let go and grow fat.
coloradofattie:
Ok so idk if any of you guys have noticed but I have probably deleted my account 3 or 4 times in the last month. I come on and I get so excited about gaining. I absolutely LOVE stuffing myself. I’ve had days where I eat just an insane amount of food. But then I feel super guilty and it leads me to deleting my account. I eventually come back and start reading the forums until I decide to recreate my account. Any advice for coming to terms with this lifestyle? Because I want to gain and I really truly enjoy stuffing myself and eating as much food as possible.
I’ve gained about 10 lbs in the last month or so. Which is the quickest I’ve ever gained weight. I also feel really guilty because all of my clothing is super tight and I think people are starting to notice.
Hammertime44:
I’ve been struggling with literally the identical feeling. I gained 15lbs and freaked out because I know my gf isn’t really into it. But for me even when I stopped and ate healthy I couldn’t lose the weight so my metabolism clearly is gone now from years of doing exactly what your feeling/doing. But the curiosity always comes of wondering how it’s like to watch myself balloon out of my clothes and hear people’s reactions ect. I even scheduled an appointment with a therapist to see if I’m bi polar or crazy for having this kink. But the only way to kill the curiosity is to just do it, and that’s what I plan on. Starting my second round of my heavy cream diet. I’m only gonna do these two weeks and then see how I feel. I honestly just want to gain pst 165 because it’s officially over weight for me. But at 170 (next goal) I think I’ll get a better gauge on everything...
GrowingLoveHandles:
smpj:
This fetish is not an acquired taste, you're essentially born into it - and whatever component of the interest it is that turns you on is probably going to be there for life. So the more highly sexed you are, the more difficult it will be to say no to its engagement.
You have two choices: At some point to either succumb to the fetish or spend your life wishing you had.
So true.
4 years
That link does not work for me. ?
4 years
I honestly wouldn’t mind if a feeder helped it a little by boosting my intake of more estrogen rich foods...
4 years
