reckless gaining

For me much of the turn on is from the unhealthiness, I know I'll be dead by 30 and that I'll end up with too many chronic health problems to name, but it doesn't phase me. I'm 20 stone and can fell my body struggling. Walking more than a couple of minutes gets me out of breath and when I eat greasy food my chest starts to fell weird. My helplessness and lack of willpower really turns me on.

You might want to optimise your life a bit. Don't get too ill too soon or you won't get to be super fat or enjoy it for as long.

If you can keep hauling your fat body around with strength and energy you can get fatter and enjoy yourself more. You can still keep the same aim but longer term and grander.
avatar JackSteven 2 months

girlfriend wants to get immobile

cornsnake, it's all very well being happy with her at any weight but she wants to be fatter. Do you not want her fatter? There are men who would want her fatter. I don't know if you are just trying to sound virtuous for loving her at any size but really the point of being Feeder and Feedee is you both want it. If you are just going along with her desires JUST to please her then it's not mutual.

Yes obviously it's bad for her health to get that fat but she is weighing up her desire to get fatter with her health concerns. You really don't seem to excited by the idea of her getting fatter and only concerned with her happiness and her health.

Some people here might think that entirely right that your only concern is for her needs and desires and not your own but in a relationship she would be wanting someone who actually desires her to get fatter.

It's gotta be a two way mutual thing. Clearly the balance is difficult if she's the one getting fatter and you're the one running around for her but the desire for her to get fatter has got to be something you both share.

So in conclusion I actually think it's right for her to get fat but not for you. You might need to consider separating so that she can spend her life with someone who shares her desire.
avatar JackSteven 2 months

your kinkiest fantasy

Being chained up on a California king bed and my feeder forcing me to gain till I'm spilling off of it and no matter what I do he won't stop and he finds ways for me to always be full and gaining as fast as possible and he fattens me to death

avatar JackSteven 2 months

tips to gain weight fast and cheap?

I'm new to this and I do not have a big budget or a meal plan to reach my goal, in fact I do not even have the money to buy a balance. my goal is to reach 100 kg

Bread is probably the cheapest most fattening food. Carbs are key. So think of every way of eating bread. Get some good spreads. Butter is good for you but man made spreads are more fattening as your body has to store them.

Coke and other fizzy drinks are sold in 2 litre bottles cheaper than water. Make sure you drink this and not water. You can see documentaries on people who became supersized because of drinking so much soda.
avatar JackSteven 2 months

does this happen to anyone?

You need to request somewhere to sit. 15 minutes standing still is hard work. It's actually easier to walk about a bit.
avatar JackSteven 3 months

fat and fit?

Is there any way I can gain weight while still keeping some level of physical conditioning? I enjoy a few athletic hobbies, but I have always had a bit of a fantasy for this kind of thing. Thanks for the help.

Keep moving!
Be careful not to hurt yourself and take Glucosomine to keep your joints healthy.
Do not overdo it but be sure to do enough.
avatar JackSteven 3 months

lock me up and balloon me up

I would love to be locked in a mirrored room and force fed through a tube a fattening liquid diet, and watch myself balloon with lard before my very eyes.

From your pictures I am watching you balloon. So you're doing something right.
avatar JackSteven 6 months

(nsfw) weight gain and masturbation addiction.

SSBBW lover that's good to hear. One of the major causes of not gaining any more weight is Type 2 diabetes. It halts the conversion of food into body fat. Getting your blood sugar right through medication will allow you to gain weight. Eat as much as you want and use the medication to control your blood sugar. I know that's not what they advise but then they don't want you getting fatter.

Happiness comes first, so eat.
avatar JackSteven 6 months

(nsfw) weight gain and masturbation addiction.

It's a very important outlet for you. Gaining weight on your own body gets you closer to your sexual fat fantasies so don't worry about some extra pounds. Look around, loads more fatties than ever before. You getting fatter won't upset the world, have another fattening snack.
avatar JackSteven 7 months

do any other fat guys have issues finding a woman in the dating scene?

Past 7 years I been told I am ugly, worthless, useless, ugly, nothing but trash, I have nothing to offer any woman, that no woman would want me, I am a joke, even told I needed to kill myself, I have even been catfished about 20 times over the past 7 years on every dating site and app.

I dunno what catfished is but it sounds unpleasent.

I know women are important but the first thing to learn is you're not concerned what they think of you.

The second thing to learn is we're all a bit shit and can all be described as worthless and what ever. That's unimportant too.

You have some skills and abilities that you're quite pleased with yourself with. You smile about them. No need to show off or to get anyone else's opinion on them.

Work on your skills and on any weaknesses you believe are worth the effort. In my opinion my marathon running abilities are crap but I won't waste my time even thinking about it. However there are some things I can improve that would help me. I'm not bothered, I can stay the same and it won't matter, it just might be more fun if I improved.

As a man it's important to do your thing but don't worry if it impresses anyone or not. It might but if it does just politely thank them for the compliment. Equally it's unimportant if someone tells you that the way you do your thing is crap and other people do it better. Maybe true but it's unimportant if you're the best, leave that for the Olympics. You're quite pleased with your own performance, you get satisfaction.

Right so now you've got your own opinion of yourself sorted time to talk to women.

So do not prepare yourself, do not think about talking to a woman. Just talk to her. She might give you some shit that makes you feel bad. They can do that just by looking you up and down. So here's what you think "Oh she's checking me out, perhaps she likes what she sees, perhaps not, let's find out".

At this point you're interested in what she thinks but what you think is more important to yourself. If she thinks you're a disgusting fat lump of shit then you're not her type. It's not that you need to not be a fat lump of shit or that she needs to change her opinion. It just means you need to meet the next one.

If you are happy with yourself then you make your opinion the reality. If she does not fancy you then that is a little odd but she is entitled to her opinion. If she does fancy you then that's sort of what you were expecting since you're that kinda guy. You're happy about it but not super delighted. You need to get to know her, she might not be your type.

Do you get what I am saying? What came through on your post was that you hold their negative opinions of yourself in high regard. Don't.

You're no superman but you're quite pleased with yourself. Plenty good enough but you're not bothered if others don't see it. Their problem for not being more observant.

Take care fella.
avatar JackSteven 7 months
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