If you don't want opinions, don't post in a public forum where literally anyone can offer them.

Gee, I wish there was a private forum where people could whine about their own problems and just make their own echo chambers where everyone agrees with them.

Wait. No I don't.

No freedom without risk, you wanted to complain about a non issue in a public forum, you better expect someone to come along and talk some sense.

No permission needed. Isn't freedom great? I think so.

Just like a ghoster, I can come on a public forum and tell you why you're wrong.

Like the old saying goes. Life is 90% on how you react to things, not the things that are done to you.

You're going to be ghosted. It has happened. It will happen again.

I'm not wrong, you know it.

Stop expecting so much out of people, especially in this "Community"

If you'd trust me just a little bit, your life will improve.

Learn to move forward. Don't get stuck on a ghost. That's just miserable. Choose happy.

You're not the only one who's ever been ghosted.

I know you haven't quite got the hang of controlling how you react to when people disappear on you, but I have. I am telling you, the minute you tell other people what they can do with their accounts is the minute everything starts to burn.

I know how the website works. I just don't think they should be responsible for our hurt feelings.

You either get tough and learn from your mistakes, or you don't.

I have, and you've been here long enough that you should have done it too.

Apparently, you expect more out of people, not entirely sure why at this point. I'll never ask the site to go after ghosters because that's what I expect most of them to do at this point.

It's life.

We both know it. You've been here almost as long as me.

Time to wake up. People are gonna ghost, nothing you can do about it. VPN's exist. There are banned people that make accounts nearly every day.

There is literally nothing the site can do to keep them out if they really want in.

Unless they do something to get banned, there is nothing against the rules against deleting and remaking accounts as far as I know.

But really, stop trusting people with new accounts. If someone is just a few months old, I never interact with them beyond the causal level in the chat because, well, I know what happens. Get to that year mark and I'll consider you trustworthy.

There is only one person on this whole site who was new that I connected with before the year mark, anyway. That's a long story.

Also, this place is filled to the brim with evil. There is 100% no telling who else they are interacting with on their end. They might be avoiding a stalker, a psychopath, you never know.

I've seen plenty of people get hurt here because they invested too much time in the wrong person when they should have bailed ages earlier.


They will ghost you, it will hurt, there is nothing in the rules that say they have to care about you or ask permission to delete accounts and remake new ones.

I think asking for an IP tracker is a bit creepy, or a website with "Fantasy" in the name. People totally have the right to disappear at any time on the net and make a totally new account anytime they like if they haven't been banned. Just as long as they keep it to one account.

I think asking for something like this is a slippery slope into a bad place. Kind of like that time there was a two hour limit on the chat room.

Bad places are easy to find. Let's avoid this one.

If someone causes you pain by disappearing, you're going to have to just deal with it. That's life. Trust your instincts, be more careful, learn to recognize typing patterns, personalities and things the ghosters can't hide.

Protect yourselves, don't ask the government here to do it for you. You know if they get involved, they'll mess it up. It's just the natural order of things. There is no Freedom without risk and the internet can be the riskiest place in the world sometimes.

It all depends on the maturity of the feeder. Too big isn't a thing for most of us, you'll just get to the point where you're not willing to support or take care of the feedee anymore. Everyone has their limits. If you can respect those limits and see the Feedee as an actual person instead of a toy or a prize, there might be some hope for you.

Most feeders can't do this, they are just dogs chasing cars. Only interested in the gaining process, once that stops, they lose interest and will get anxious to start over with someone else. Not interested in people, just results.

Feedees, make sure you're happy with this before getting started and not just looking for attention from someone else, the chances of being abandoned are high.

Be careful who you interact with no matter how charming or into you they might appear.

14 hour old account and you realize the vast majority of the community might be a tiny bit off center?

You catch on fast!

Yeah. We all have a couple of problems; everyone has to struggle with something now and again.

But we make it work for the most part.

*stare*

Then why did you say anything?

All of this is true too.

But roll the dice. Invite her anyway.

If she's aware of the fetish...and likes it or isn't weirded out by it. I think all you need to do is just open up about what you want.

Invite her to the site.

See what happens.

Ha ha ha ha ha.

You're not wrong.

You're better off not finding Feed its a "Horror" movie.

But if you want to find it, it might be on Youtube somewhere.