Why are you on ff??????

Looking to meet an intelligent and fun fat woman for a relationship.

So far its not going to plan :/
7 years

The negatives of being fat.

SsbbwTav:
Reduced mobility and Health issues:
Back ache, knee and ankle pain
Difficulty walking, even short distance. Waddling.
Prone to sitting more because moving around has gotten too hard
Easily losing my balance when standing or walking
Increasing need for a scooter or a wheelchair
Stairs, even a couple of steps are a nightmare
Difficulty in putting pants, socks and shoes on
Out of breath after only a few steps
Sleep apnea and breathing in general
Skin is sore between folds and rolls

Social, every day issues:
Not fitting in the majority of seats comfortably even if they don't have armrests. Cannot go to cinemas, theatres, public spaces as much as I used to
Cannot drive comfortably anymore
I need two plane seats
Cannot be accommodated in a bath so i can only shower, seated on a stool.
Clothes are difficult to find, and when I find in my size they are too expensive but still ill fitting
Stares, giggles, offensive comments from strangers. Family lectures.
Transportation issues. If a place requires walking then I don't go there
Sleepiness during the day because of my sleep apnea. In need to lie down often.
Reduced salary because i had to abandon my full time employment and settle in a part time arrangement as it it has become hard to sit straight all those hours.
Embarrassing situations such as breaking or not fitting in furniture.
Needing much more time to get somewhere

Psychological issues:
Addiction to food, overeating
Anxiety in social situations, especially when requiring physical effort
Occasional bounds of depression when something happens to remind me of my fat related disabilities
Body dismorphia - I still see myself much thinner than my 500+ body is


That's really sad that you don't seem to be enjoying it anymore.

Are you happy to stay at the same size or do you plan to lose a little?
7 years

College weight gain

I see a lot of gains at university but they tend to be modest - 10lbs on women who were around 120lbs

Still not very exciting. Below 200lbs - no party.
7 years

My girlfriend saw this site in my browser history and is acting weird now.

She probably thinks that you see her as fat as you are dating her and you visit this site. She's probably feeling a bit insecure right now and the best thing to do is show her how much you like/love her.

Take her on a day out, do the things that she loves to do, or really wants to do. Remind her why she fell for you.

If you both love each other and have the right attitude then you will work it out.

I don't buy into this: dump them as soon as something goes wrong mentality that so many of us under forties seem to have.
8 years

Favourite bbw youtubers

Kitty fatt is one of the best.
8 years

Stretched marks?! sexy or not

Yep, its a sign of hard work paying off.
8 years

Video game list

1. Skyrim
2. Assassins creed 2
3. Metal Gear Solid 2
4. Fable
5. Command and Conquer: Red Alert
8 years

Self-esteem, fat camps and adolescence

Also, if the you don't wish to discuss these matters on a forum then please PM me and we can discuss it over email.
8 years

Self-esteem, fat camps and adolescence

Dear all,

I'm writing a YA novel set in a fat camp. The story will unfold through multiple perspectives, as a group of sixteen year olds are thrown together for the summer.

Can any of you offer any input into any of these feelings/situations:

-How you felt about your body as a teenager?

-How your parents talked about your weight.

-Self harming

-Experience at fat camp (bit of a long shot!)

-The first time you realised somebody had a crush on you.

-Fancying someone but not feeling worthy.


Many of these subjects seem negative, but that's what I want to write about. I want a novel that isn't afraid to talk about the things that are on a million minds.

I want this novel to give comfort, or, at the very least, understanding, to a young person with body image issues.

I hope you can help. Any input shall be welcomed. Thank you.
8 years
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