Over the years, I've made the choice to rid myself of people who were intolerant of my preference, and chose to ridicule rather than try to understand. I look at it as their loss, not mine.

A little over a year ago, I left my job over it. I'm married to a paysite model. My boss came across a few of her pics, and asked me about them. I openly admitted my wife's second business, and told him I supported it. He thought it was funny enough, that he decided to show my co-workers, and my customers.

I was furious, since it wasn't the part of her being a "porn" model that was the issue, it was because she was a fat porn model. Without getting into all of the legal terms, I left the company & found another job within my field, but my former employer knows that I have a 2 year window to bring suit against them for what is called creating a hostile work environment.

My wife and I have since separated, but she has always applauded the fact that I am proud of my preferences. My parents didn't raise me to cause a girl to feel inadequate even though I chose her by hiding her in my closet, hotel room, or somewhere that she couldn't be seen with me. Hell, she wasn't afraid to be seen with me, so why do it to her?

Just sayin'.

Okay, true that this is a size acceptance forum, but that doesn't necessarily mean that Juicy has to go along with the program if that guy is not an outed FA. Acceptance, yes........relationship material, no.

I don't know you, but perhaps you can share if you've been with a big girl in public. I'm married to one, and been with her for 8 years. I've almost come to blows with idiots that find it important to comment about her appearance. The words just find their way out, and I feel that I can't allow that to happen. Maybe if you did spend time with a big girl at the mall, or sporting event, or concert, and you heard a group of men or women mumble "***" or "did you ever hear of cottage cheese", you might take the same approach I do.

I know I'm not going to change their minds via my confrontation, I DO know, however, that they'll at least think twice before saying something, for fear of getting their ass kicked.

By the way, big women like guys with balls.

I dunno. All forums have owners, moderators, and rules.

No one said it's a democracy.

Did you LOOK at the board rules before you started posting?

It was a deal breaker for me when I first met my wife to be. Let's face it, most guys can be obnoxious ***s, and I didn't want to be party to e-mails & comments directed to someone I was involved with. She (fortunately for me) decided that I was worth more to her than her website, and decided against pursuing a modeling career at that time.

We married a year later. Fast forward 3 years, and she received an offer to return to modeling. Nothing changed for me, however, as I still felt the same way about it. After negotiating what felt like the Middle East Peace Treaty, she returned to modeling for a paysite.

I struggle with it to this day. We view what she does differently. Her photos are hot, but no nudity. I still see it as guys pay to fap to her pics, and say it how you want it, but it's porn. So, it's really been up to me to make the adjustments. I support her in her endeavor because I love her, so I do the photos, handle her MySpace, forward things to her that require a personal answer, act as her agent, all in the name of love........................

It's both a help and a hindrance to be involved to that extent, but let's just say that for me, it's filled with both good and bad.