Despite gaining weight over the past 6 months, I still do long walks everyday. Good to stay fit while getting fat. I always get a sense of achievement when I do a big hour long or do walk to somewhere that most people would drive or catch public transport to. I'd never want to lose the ability to do that.

Big arms on a woman are great and I appreciate them more and more as the years go by. The softness and pillowiness is both sexy and comforting at the same time. Nothing to be ashamed about at all. Wear sleeveless tops and flaunt those fat arms

Hi, I'm new to the site as well (or at least as far as posting is concerned). I'm an Aussie boy living in London and am into music, photography and cooking (and eating!).

Happy to chat with anyone about anything really - I'd like to think I'm an open minded kinda guy

Lot's of faves, but my favourite of all time is Seinfeld.

I don't make any less or more of an effort than I think I would if I liked thin women. I see a big girl I find attractive when I'm out, I will talk to her. If I find her attractive, I will tell her. When I'm out in public with a big girlfriend, I'll be as affectionate as I want (which can be quite a bit at times!). It will certainly be apparent to anyone who sees me that I like what I like, but I wouldn't say I do anything more or less than an affectionate guy who likes slim girls would.

When I start gaining this winter I want to binge on junk food for 2 weeks then switch to healthy overeating like lots of pasta before bed etc. Have others done a similar thing?

I'm 165 now and am waiting until winter to gain 15 pounds. If I like it I'll go for another 20 to bring me to 200. I don't want to be bigger than that