That depends! I'll message you.

Your profile says you're poly and partnered. Is that still the case?

Of course you feel guilty about it. Society teaches us to conform, fall in line, follow the standard, and everyone else is a deviant or trouble maker. When you feel that pressure remember that you're a human, not a sheep, and you can make decisions for yourself. Don't get sucked into a life led by the old Japanese proverb that "the nail that stands out gets hammered down."

True, this fetish is not without health risks, but lots of people smoke, drink to excess, or drive recklessly all the time. Is this all that much more dangerous? Pick your poison, avoid other risks, and if you indulge a bit let it be for the one thing that really makes you happy. Just make sure there is trust and informed consent for everyone involved and there is no reason to feel guilty.

Sorry to see you're so far away, your belly looks like it deserves some good rubs.

That's a very worthy goal! Welcome.

A lot of weight gain is genetics, so it isn't always easy to control.

Sounds like he's still in the closet about his fetish. Not sure how you can get him out but he's not going to embrace it with you until he accepts it in himself.

Pity you're so far north.

That's a great goal. Enjoy easy shopping at LB. Even there the smaller sizes are often more plentiful on the shelf. Their stuff is usually better made than Torrid though.