Do you perchance eat meals together? Maybe out at a restaurant or buffet nearby? You could make sure you get your fill while you're there, bring up the subject of your new medication, plus your bad genetics, and that maybe you're just saying "screw it" and enjoying yourself. Gauge the reaction she gives, and if she lights up, maybe that's a green light to talk about feederism.

I like this thread, it's very affirming, because I do want to get fat, but I'm worried about not being seen as attractive.

I'm curious what other reasons this thread can come up with.

I feel like stress in general can make an excuse to gain weight, not just problems with work. My folks and I had to recently move because the landlords wanted to move into the house we were living in. It was stressful getting evicted and finding a new home.


Also... holidays maybe? I'm not sure people will question extra weight if you go extra hard on holiday dinners.

Always wanted to be fat as a kid, but grew up a twig. It's amazing how many other folks in this thread were in the same boat, but are now actually fat. It's inspiring that it could happen.



It's a thing I've known I need to do but so far haven't drummed up the courage to do so because I'm scared of financial stability going away.

When I first started gaining, I tried doing that for dinner. I could only manage two restaurants at a time. A big meal at McDonalds and maybe something at Burger King. I remember the biggest meal I had was a Triple Whopper and a full meatball sub from Subway, capped off with a large chocolate shake from McDonalds.



Hanging out with you sounds like it'd be fun haha.

I was 125 when I joined back in late 2014. Met a local girl on here who was a mutual gainer and kinda started gaining up to about 138, and then I lost most of it. Went on another gainer kick the year after, getting up to about 140 before I got too busy to keep it up, and wound up going back down to 131. Last I weighed myself I was in the upper 130s, but I've been hitting the gym once a week since April of last year and not eating to gain, so I'm not sure how much is muscle. I'm close to my "heaviest" now, but I'm sure I was at my "fattest" in late 2016.

I wonder what the future will hold. I'm trying to stay fit right now, but I hope I run into a girl who will take me very far in the opposite direction.

I'd certainly be a fan of this being a thing. Broaden the dating pool a lot more.

I really love seeing how a person evolves as they grow. Especially if they were once skinny. If they were already fat, making them fatter is just going to emphasize their shape (which is still satisfying to see, don't get me wrong). But with someone who is skinny, fattening them up, you get to see them literally take a whole different shape. You'll never know if most of their fat is going to go to their ass, their thighs, their chest, their face, or their belly.

On the subject of bellies too, there's a whole bunch of different belly shapes that they can take on. It could be one big soft hanging blob hanging off of them, it could transform into a double belly, it could just be a complete sexy sea of squish, the possibilities are endless.

Plus, getting to cuddle, kiss, and caress the end result is always the best too. (Assuming this is a lover you're talking about.)

As a feeder, a feedee, or even just a gainer, do you guys have any sort of "Bucket List" things you'd like to do or experience.

One thing I'm hoping to do should I ever have a feedee is to be able to get someone stuffed early in the day, and keep them stuffed for the entire day, just kinda nursing that state until they go to sleep. Bonus points if I can keep it going for several days.

I was wondering, is there anyone here who put on weight because they hung around friends (or really anyone) who had "bad" eating habits. Maybe even people who started out skinny but wound up fat because of who they hung around with?

I fantasize sometimes about this happening to me. I find a handful of friends who have massive appetites that I hang around and through adopting their habits, I turn into one of them. It's also comforting to think about them reacting positively to the gain. Can anyone relate?