What is the heaviest girl that you have ever dated?
I have already "weighed in" on this subject, but I wanted to answer because I am a guy and numbers excite me. 
I remember years ago reading advertisements for a weight loss product and thinking the women were so much more beautiful in the "before" photos.
When I started dating, I bowed to societal pressure and only dated chubby women or bigger women with even larger breasts because big breasts are always acceptable. There was a girl in high school who was a SSBBW (although I don't think I knew the term yet) who I really wish I had dated. I didn't know her well, but she was always fun to engage in conversation. I really missed out.
In college I met a thin woman and we dated exclusively for three years. She started talking about marriage, but I was non-committal and she broke up with me. It was the best thing that ever happened.
After college and on my own, I realized I could and should date whomever I wanted. I meet a woman who I guessed was about 250 pounds and she swept me off my feet. We dated for a long time. We both loved to eat. By the time we came to the end, she was well over 300 pounds. Nothing bad happened between us, we just moved on.
Over the next few years, I knew I would only be happy with a larger woman. Some guys like hair, eyes, or long legs. I like fat. I had some great dates with some sexy BBW and SSBBW. I treat people the way I want to be treated. I am sure if I see any of them again, we will have good memories of what we enjoyed.
Then came the internet! I miss the AOL days of creating a "Looking for a BBW in (fill in the city)" chat room and waiting only moments for women to arrive.
I was traveling for work and had the opportunity to meet new women in new places. I was completely honest about going new places to meet BBW and SSBBW. During this period, I met a woman who told me she weighed 465 pounds with measurements of 56-48-68. She also loved being fat! She showed me how she played with her fat and that it can be a very erotic experience for both of us!
What I learned in this relationship, I shared with other BBW and SSBBW. I have met and enjoyed many fat women. At least one BBW even preferred fat men.
I met my 470 pound friend via the internet and we dated for about 9 months. Since then I have been seeing a 382 pound woman who is incredible in ALL aspects.
Suffice it to say, I prefer fat woman! Will 470 be my biggest? I don't know, but I know I would enjoy the opportunity to be with an even larger woman - maybe even a feeder.
Thanks for reading. I hope you enjoyed this. I still travel for work and enjoy meeting people for fun, friendship, feasting, and whatever common interests we find we share. Drop me a note.
I remember years ago reading advertisements for a weight loss product and thinking the women were so much more beautiful in the "before" photos.
When I started dating, I bowed to societal pressure and only dated chubby women or bigger women with even larger breasts because big breasts are always acceptable. There was a girl in high school who was a SSBBW (although I don't think I knew the term yet) who I really wish I had dated. I didn't know her well, but she was always fun to engage in conversation. I really missed out.
In college I met a thin woman and we dated exclusively for three years. She started talking about marriage, but I was non-committal and she broke up with me. It was the best thing that ever happened.
After college and on my own, I realized I could and should date whomever I wanted. I meet a woman who I guessed was about 250 pounds and she swept me off my feet. We dated for a long time. We both loved to eat. By the time we came to the end, she was well over 300 pounds. Nothing bad happened between us, we just moved on.
Over the next few years, I knew I would only be happy with a larger woman. Some guys like hair, eyes, or long legs. I like fat. I had some great dates with some sexy BBW and SSBBW. I treat people the way I want to be treated. I am sure if I see any of them again, we will have good memories of what we enjoyed.
Then came the internet! I miss the AOL days of creating a "Looking for a BBW in (fill in the city)" chat room and waiting only moments for women to arrive.
I was traveling for work and had the opportunity to meet new women in new places. I was completely honest about going new places to meet BBW and SSBBW. During this period, I met a woman who told me she weighed 465 pounds with measurements of 56-48-68. She also loved being fat! She showed me how she played with her fat and that it can be a very erotic experience for both of us!
What I learned in this relationship, I shared with other BBW and SSBBW. I have met and enjoyed many fat women. At least one BBW even preferred fat men.
I met my 470 pound friend via the internet and we dated for about 9 months. Since then I have been seeing a 382 pound woman who is incredible in ALL aspects.
Suffice it to say, I prefer fat woman! Will 470 be my biggest? I don't know, but I know I would enjoy the opportunity to be with an even larger woman - maybe even a feeder.
Thanks for reading. I hope you enjoyed this. I still travel for work and enjoy meeting people for fun, friendship, feasting, and whatever common interests we find we share. Drop me a note.
8 years
(nsfw) weight gain and masturbation addiction.
elise ffa:
Hi all,
Long time lurker but finally joined in order to post. I'm a female FA/feeder & occasional gainer having intentionally gained some weight on three separate occasions during my lifetime - including currently!
Isn't it weird how that switch turns on in your mind and suddenly you find yourself stuffing yourself with this, that, and the other, wriggling into tight clothes, and fondling yourself...
Not to mention suddenly looking so tiny and frustratingly slim in the mirror when a couple of weeks ago your self-image was completely different. It is remarkable, truly.
Anyway! I know that typically during these periods of time when I am gaining weight deliberately, I struggle to control my sexual urges more than usual. When not gaining I typically consume FA related material for at least 30 mins a day anyway, although it has to be said that it has been markedly more over the past couple of months, and I would put that down to having suffered a difficult bereavement recently and wanting to distract myself from negative feelings.
Subsequently, I am worried that I am using masturbation and sexual fat-related thoughts as an emotional crutch more and more often. Really, I'm just wondering if anyone has had any similar experiences and how they managed to limit their intake.
It's not affecting my sex life negatively, am still very happy with my beautiful partner and if anything feel more confident at the moment.
I do want to be able to enjoy my kink, it's a big part of who I am and something that I've only just really started to accept properly. That acceptance has caused me to desire participation in the community more and I think it's this issue, that our kink is so related to my sense of self and an evolving identity that makes it so hard for me to separate the need for healthy, affirmative social behaviour with a possibly destructive need to seek out anything that jiggles and spend the evening drooling. Tumblr - it's a blessing and a curse, basically.
I'd just really like to be able to free up some more time to do other things.
Any advice would be much appreciated!
Also, apologies if I posted this in the wrong category!
Hi all,
Long time lurker but finally joined in order to post. I'm a female FA/feeder & occasional gainer having intentionally gained some weight on three separate occasions during my lifetime - including currently!
Isn't it weird how that switch turns on in your mind and suddenly you find yourself stuffing yourself with this, that, and the other, wriggling into tight clothes, and fondling yourself...
Not to mention suddenly looking so tiny and frustratingly slim in the mirror when a couple of weeks ago your self-image was completely different. It is remarkable, truly.
Anyway! I know that typically during these periods of time when I am gaining weight deliberately, I struggle to control my sexual urges more than usual. When not gaining I typically consume FA related material for at least 30 mins a day anyway, although it has to be said that it has been markedly more over the past couple of months, and I would put that down to having suffered a difficult bereavement recently and wanting to distract myself from negative feelings.
Subsequently, I am worried that I am using masturbation and sexual fat-related thoughts as an emotional crutch more and more often. Really, I'm just wondering if anyone has had any similar experiences and how they managed to limit their intake.
It's not affecting my sex life negatively, am still very happy with my beautiful partner and if anything feel more confident at the moment.
I do want to be able to enjoy my kink, it's a big part of who I am and something that I've only just really started to accept properly. That acceptance has caused me to desire participation in the community more and I think it's this issue, that our kink is so related to my sense of self and an evolving identity that makes it so hard for me to separate the need for healthy, affirmative social behaviour with a possibly destructive need to seek out anything that jiggles and spend the evening drooling. Tumblr - it's a blessing and a curse, basically.
I'd just really like to be able to free up some more time to do other things.
Any advice would be much appreciated!
Also, apologies if I posted this in the wrong category!
I probably won't be any help. I will agree with you. I have always been a fat admirer for BBW and SSBBW. Recently I have started to appreciate BHM and find nothing more exciting than watching a video of fat people fucking.
I have always been big. I am currently 240 pounds and have decided to eat what I want. If I get bigger, that will be great.
Thinking about the BBW and SSBBW I have enjoyed, and me being bigger, makes me horny - and I have been masturbating more frequently when I am not having sex with a partner.
Feeling all the soft flesh just makes me hornier.
If you like it, enjoy it! I know I do. 😎
8 years
