anorexia affects both men and woman but mostly woman so thats what I will focus on this post.
if a woman is terrified of getting fat or being a normal weight.
Have her pretend to be that weight for a day or so and see its not so bad.
Wearing a fat suit or just some padding might be a good way to over come the fear of being a little bigger.
After words say "You were bigger for a day and the world did not end"


I think thats why celebrities have gone under cover wearing fat suits.
To play on the fear of getting fat most women have.

Note I have found this a lot in research that having anorexia often causes a great deal of rebound weight gain.
Also often it is not permanent as many eventually lose some of the weight and make it to a healthy weight naturally.

Example
Brittany Burgunder
www.thesun.co.uk/living/1255335/from-anorexic-to-obese-to-healthy-incredible-photos-chart-womans-extreme-weight-fluctuation/

an other one
Megan Jayne Crabbe.

Treatment
show the anorexic the fat suit or pads on a manikin
she might say something like thats not to bad
the let her try it on
she will think omg im huge
but the point of this is to show the woman how distorted her mind is.
It looks the same on You as the manikin

if You were to try this with obese fat suit I think it would traumatize the women
a lot of anorexics would rather be dead than fat.

there are some challenges going around for anorexics in recovery.
let some one pick what You eat for a day (family friends)
the 10 k cal challenge.
maybe it could be suggested to do a fat suit challenge.

Pleas note as of the posting of this I have not bin able to find anything on this subject on the Internet.
if You do find anything pleas share.

congratulations on the baby.
looks like You to will be getting a little bigger for a little while.
Your life will change forever.

its common just hidden.
it was in fashion at one time
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welcome new friend
theirs jerks on every website that have nothing better to do than drag people down.
just try to make friends with the good people and You will be fine
pleas forgive my spelling.

good question.
hopefully the answers well give some good standards to live up to.

Like a fatcation
fat vacation
just being fat temporarily.
interesting idea.
Like Renee zellweger being temporarily fat
or a tv show called "fit to fat to fit"
I think it can be dun but I think getting slim again at the end of it would be the hard part.
Natty fatty is trying to get go back / get strong after gaining 80 lb
www.youtube.com/channel/UCnNBV_7MRB9ugfitES7Rc5w
iv gained 5lb and lost it a couple of times on purpose. but I normally stay at 200lb.
Maybe wear a fatsuit for a while.
Good luck

You might not be able to choose what Your body looks like.
But its what You do with it that matters.
Imagine Your self a half Your current size.
and then Imagine Your self a double Your current size.
Are You still a nice good person either way?
It sounds like You get along with Your husband.
He probably feels like the luckiest man on earth.
There are a lot of couples that want to KILL each other.
I think being able to get along counts a lot more than looks long term.
Your both going to be old one day I hop

The way You act can do a lot more for Your attractiveness than Your looks.
Your welcome to share picks but You are not obligated if Your uncomfortable.

making sure you only serve fresh food and following the basic rules of food safety seam to help the most.