HammerTime44:
I tried to explain its more chubby chasing myself. And yeah I look at Bbw models on insta and weight gain videos and blogs on YouTube. But that's just material it's not like a demand of what I want in a relationship or sex ect ect. I like to see change and feel the panicky feeling of struggling to button my pants or fit in a shirt.20lbs isn't like insane. Still the same person

AlexQuinn:
TL;DR : I told my gf I like chubby/fat/heavier girls, and she took it well, but is curious and wants to see pictures of other chubbier girls I like to understand it better. How about your experiences?

Two days ago I told my gf about this for the first time. There's no reason anybody would have read my previous post history, but if you did you'd know that my gf is chubby and even though her weight fluctuates she's definitely gained a good bit since we started dating - we call her "thicc" haha.

I'd been dropping hints about the fact that I like her chub for a long time, maybe over a year. And I'm not exactly shy about things like grabbing her belly during sex. But we'd never actually had "the conversation." I was too shy or nervous to actually put it into words and she never really asked; she seemed mostly content knowing that I liked her curves and chubbier parts and left it at that. Two days ago tho, we somehow got to talking about what we liked about each other after a particularly intense night after a longer dry spell, and I pretty much thought "fuck it" and straight up told her.


She was shockingly OK with it. It seemed like she'd guessed or just straight up knew most of it, but she was curious. She doesn't really understand it and said that her default mode was trying to lose weight rather than gain it, but she knows she's been between curvy and chubby for most of her adult life and to her, it was hot to hear that I was specifically into her body type. She asked what the scope of my attraction was, and I basically told her that she could gain and she'd definitely never have to worry. I tried very hard to make sure she knew that I understood that she doesn't really want to gain and that I really wasn't trying to push anything on her, but that I just really wanted her to know. She acknowledged that and didn't seem worried or concerned about it. We left it there that night since it was like 4am and we were exhausted.

The next night I brought it up again by saying how intense it was to tell her about my kink/preference. It was almost like a post-mortem or a debrief type thing. She was curious - she doesn't understand the attraction, but wants to. I tried explaining it with words, but I think it's difficult to try to tell someone who isn't attracted to fat why fat is so attractive. She asked again "how big" but in a roundabout way without saying the words outright. She could see I was struggling, and suggested that maybe having other examples of what I found sexy would be helpful. She even went so far to say that maybe I should find a couple pictures of women I found hot to show her. I said I'd think about what would be good on that front and we left it there because it was about 5am that night and we were even more exhausted.

So now I'm here. And to be honest, it feels amazing - like a weight has lifted off my chest. I've never explicitly told someone in a relationship that this was what I was into most of all. I have no idea how this will change the relationship or our sex life - and maybe it won't! But I'm still left with the dilemma of whether or not to actually pick out pictures or not. I guess my reason for posting is I wanted to hear people's experiences telling their partners about this side of their lives and how it went, both short term and long term (if applicable).

drummer2408:
How do female feedees feel about being with a fit partner? Would that be a turn-on for anyone, knowing that your partner is in such better shape than you?

I'm not like a body builder or anything -- but in the past few months I've gone from "utterly scrawny" to "a teensy bit muscular." I'm actually proud of the way I look for the first time ever.

Anyway, I have this recurring fantasy of being with a girl who stuffs her face while watching me work out -- or who turns down going to the gym so she can eat instead...only to have a 2nd dinner with me when I get back. I think that would be the coolest thing ever.

person12670:
My friends don't say anything direct, but I have gotten less direct indications. One asked if I still exercised and another said "I can't believe you ate all that" when we were out for dinner. One friend I hadn't seen in years said she didn't recognize me. And my favorite was when a female friend poked my belly, noticing how fat i got, and then when she was shocked how far her finger went in, she kept poking again and again slowly as if exploring my fatness haha.

voluptuouslover:
I think there are a lot of women as well as guys .....that have a secret fascination with Fat. Not to the degree we all do ....but I definitely think they are intrigued although they might not seek it out for a relationship ....but how many women or Men do you know that don’t seem to care and actually like that there spouse fattened up after being together for a while. Not all the time but they seem to like it a lot more than not liking it.

Lovethechub87:
Is there anyone that would actually do a kidnappibg fantasy seriously? On either side of it

Startnew:
I agree. I dont understand what's so wrong with ageing. As a teenager I kept hiding under baggy clothes whereas bow I glorify my curves with appropriate clothes and most importantly with a greater self confidence. I wouldn't change that 4 the whole world.

Admittedly I do look younger than my age
I can see that by the way ppl talk to me. But it must be bc I didn't waste too much of my time with yoyo-dieting. Anyway even if I had 1million wrinkles I would never change the experience and... the naughtiness I have now for the naive little girl who was ashamed of her fantasies and her fetish.

Marquis de Sate:
It is different when somebody is fat when he/she is 20. He/she can for exemple have more acceptance for it or for the fact that it is what he/she wants ten years laters (or have lost the weight.) But most people are slim with 20, gain weight later (unintentionally) and associate it with aging.

In my case, I was skinny with 20 and as a result, I didn't look so good. I started gaining weight when I was 22. It totally changed me, I became more and more beautiful (even my face.) But I peaked in my late 20's (a very high peak compared with the average of men.) Since then, as I can see myself and also from the reaction of young women to me, I am on the descending part of the curve. That's OK now, I could see that life can still be amazing at any age, there is still love between men and women. And by the way, FFAs generally find me now the hottest.

TheWhipHand:
I am rather disturbed after reading your thoughts. Despite your disclaimer, I can't help thinking your views about your own aging process unsettling.

It's the nature of our universe that we are born, flourish, peak, and then start to diminish. These things happen. Yet, there is plenty of beauty there. It's not the usual kind, the easy kind, the kind that is appealing to everyone, but it is there. I see older people all the time who have great beauty. A woman I work with is approaching 60, and besides having taken good care of herself, she has a beautiful profile and looks wonderful.

You probably have plenty of years after 40, so you should probably get beyond this point. You have to appreciate yourself and learn to be happy with where you are in life.

I know I've misunderstood your post, but I can't help it. You need to enjoy where you are in life. There's only one way to stop aging, so unless you plan on that, you will get older.

tzimiscechi:
Lately I�ve been fantasizing about me and my partner being fed by servants till We start busting out of our clothes and can hardly move.

Then they reveal this was a trap and strip us naked and humiliate before they pull her on top of me.


Best one ever
They tell us they want her pregnant - but she doesn�t want to be. They start giggling as they move her up and down on my crotch - she of course is screaming and jiggling in protest, begging me not to orgasm.

My fat body jiggles around as I try to get out from under her - but I�m too big and out of shape.

As I get closer to climax, I start to scream but she servants stuff her oversized tit in my mouth. Flesh spilling out in every direction as they speed up.

Our bellies bouncing off each other and blubber rolls rubbing up against each other until we both orgasm together.

Of course, she doesn�t get pregnant this time and our lives become a chain of force feeding followed by sex, then more sex and more force feeding.