Svenmad2164:
It's just time to give up. I don't got what other men.Have what these ssbbws want. So I am walking away
wish you lived in Europe
3 years
am in Rome these days shall we organize an event? we need to comply with covid rules tho
3 years
please only answer if you are over 30 and serious about meeting
3 years
Gabi:
Does anyone else here have other kinks/ fetish besides this? Feet, hands, clothes etc! I’d love to talk to people who have different interests!
ExpandingCuriosity:
-BDSM (I’m pretty solidly submissive and I really enjoy being controlled)
Consensual Non-Consent, or CNC (otherwise known as ‘rape play’; I have a lot of fantasies around it, but I fully recognize the difference between a fantasy in my head that I have ultimate control over or an agreed upon role play vs real rape which is horrific and inexcusable)
-Pregnancy/ Breeding (one of the avenues that led me to feederism; Not sure I ever want to bring kids into this world, but I enjoy watching others’ pregnancies)
-Bimbofication (the other avenue that lead me to feederism - chubby feedee bimbos/ the idea of having weight and appearance controlled by someone else)
-Male Body Hair (I really really love hairy guys. The hairier, the better)
me too. all of the above
3 years
Uhm... mayb I should send him a link to some fetish porn but... is that a bit too direct? What if He gets scared and doesnt want to see me ammore?
3 years
Depression7:
I don’t even know what I’m hoping to get out of posting here. Let me start by saying I want NOTHING to do with a feeding lifestyle. If you are a couple who is into it and it’s not one person trying to convince another to partake, then honestly no judgement whatsoever. And bravo to the women who own that body positivity. However I am a woman who has been insecure about myself and my weight my entire life. I’ve always been just a little bit chubby. I’ve always had struggles with food. Always had anxiety and depression in some form as far as I can remember. And I have even suffered from eating disorders.
Well probably about 10 years ago (or maybe even more) I snooped on my husbands phone (also have trust issues) and I found this forum and other feeder and BBW fetish sites. And while a little disturbed I was okay with it at first because he wasn’t texting other women, he wasn’t cheating, and he wasn’t looking at women who I considered to be perfect body types that I would never achieve. Plus I had my own fantasies that he didn’t know about... it’s cool we all have our thing right? Nbd.
The only things that kind of bothered me was when I read articles like “how to convince my girlfriend to let me feed her” or “how to feed my wife against her will” because I wanted NO part in any of this fantasy. I did not and do not ever want my husband to look at me as a fat fetish. And even when he tells me that he likes my body when I gain weight, it makes me highly uncomfortable and I don’t like it!
Cut to 2 kids and 80 lbs later, I am about 230 lbs and MISERABLE. I never want to have sex or even change in front of my husband of 12 years, because I don’t like him looking at me like that. Keep in mind he has no idea that I know about his fetish. And I am totally cool with him looking at other women if that turns him on, but to me, I am insecure and I hate the way I look right now. Other BBW women are beautiful to me- when they are confident and own it. I get why he would be turned on by that. But to me, I feel ugly and fat and just so sad and defeated. And the fact that he LIKES it and is turned on by it makes me hate and resent him.
Recently I have found photos on his phone of myself where I look disgusting. And he crops me out. Crops out my face in photos where I have a double chin. Photos of me when I was 80 lbs thinner next to photos of me now.
And my anxiety and depression is really at an all time high as I’m the heaviest I have ever been in my life (not a coincidence- I overeat because I’m depressed/ I’m depressed because I overeat) and I just feel helpless like I can’t stop. And he tries to pretend like he wants to encourage me to be healthier but I know he doesn’t. It makes me want to starve myself honestly, and then when I try to, I end up binge eating because I just can’t stop.
I spent hours this morning crying after he left the house because of the way all this makes me feel. And I don’t know what to do or why I’m telling the group of people who have this very same fetish.
Maybe I’m hoping to get advice from someone like him... would you continue encouraging this lifestyle knowing it made your spouse miserable? Should I be honest and tell him I know everything?
Thanks for listening.
Hi beautiful, there is nothing to be ashamed in being overweight. There is nothing to be ashamed in willing to loose weight. I can understand why you are disturbed by the fact your husband looks at before/after pix of you. But I do find it a little bit odd that you dont want him to see you naked. I mean you had his Kids! You have been together for over 12 years. You dont even share your fantasies with each other! You do need counselling to battle depression but you DO need to talk to each other too. Come clean about the fact that you looked at his Phone and if He gets mad at you for that, so be it. Then ask him what does He like about this fetish and share your fantasies with each other. It can be very exciting and even help you feel better about your body. Your body is not only the size you are in. It's your story, it's the means to hug your Kids, go for a walk, have an orgasm... and even if I know it is hard, stop having this passive aggressive attitude. You either accept your weight or you change it
3 years
Funwithbbw:
I am not the least bit ashamed. I love big ladies, and I am vocal about it. Everyone that knows me, knows I love big ladies. Before I retired, occasionally an associate would make the mistake of trying to make fun of me for it, they eneded up being humiliated everytime. My go to was accusing them of having SPS, when I explained because of SPS they could not handle a big lady, everyone laughed and made fun of that person. The rest of the associates decided I was not the one to be messed with. I was not at the meeting where it was decided that large ladies were not pretty. Was not there when it was decided they could not wear bikinis. I don't let others dictate what I like. My almost 400 pound wife, wears her bikini and guys are always trying to hang around her. She has plenty of admirers. Don't be ashame, stand up and be proud. Ladies, confidence is the most sexy thing you can be, it certainly works for my wife. Men find her sexy and hot.
TOTALLY agree. Btw what is SPS?
3 years
PhoenixChimera:
I used to, I always liked bigger girls but would take a fair bit of flack for it from peers. I remember a particularly cruel ex-friend singing ‘what’s that coming over the hill’ when he saw my then-partner. His mates joined in, it was awful! I couldn’t get away from them fast enough.
Back then I was so scared of what people thought and how cruel they were that I was thin for camouflage and had a dangerous habit of not eating and was so unhappy, I knew it had to change.
I’m so glad it has, I’m not ashamed any more, and those comments in the street don’t have the effect they want them to any more!
So happy He is an EX friend
3 years
There is this guy I met 3 months ago. No bf, He was supposed to b a fuck friend. Then we were separated during lockdown but we kept sexting. I didnt Think I would see him again. I am going to meet him tomorrow. When sexting I told him about this fetish only once asking him to call me piggy and the like and He seemed to have fun doing that but then we didnt message for a while. Now we are going to meet tomorrow. Should I... ehm... try and ask of He wants to try again? I dont want to lose him, fetish or not fetish. This is something I can go without but it makes sex more fun
P.s. I Think He knew about this fetish bc He was too good at sexting about it
3 years
MaybeAdam:
When it come to male bellies do y'all prefer fuzzy or shaved? Why?
Fuzzy! Looks more masculine
4 years
