Not many, and the ones that are around are usually either not interested because they're in serious relationships or are so overwhelmed by the sheer number of men that they couldn't care less about some random new guy.
You also have to account for the fact that men are much more receptive to women's kinks than vice versa (because the guy knows he'll be getting some anyway so he doesn't care). Women are much more liable to be creeped out by a guy with non vanilla interests. Thus a lot of girls on here are with guys who don't even have a stuffing/fat/etc. fetish.

It sucks and all but thats just how things are these days.

I know for certain that my stomach can hold a little over a gallon and a half (around five and a half liters) and thats drinking within a 10 minute window as to avoid anything being passed through to the intestines.
I don't know where the biological limit for humans is but I'm sure its well beyond what we do here.
Also it seems that the stretching is permanent because I can reduce my calorie intake to less than 1900 for months and return to my peak capacity after a few days of warming up.

Just looked into this and it seems that the appetite increasing effects are caused by a drug called cyproheptadine which has been prescribed for people with wasting illnesses. After some looking around I found a cheapish source for it and ordered a box of 30.

I'll report back my findings when it gets here.

I do one at a time, taking multiple plates seems rude to me for some reason. Also a majority of the time I'll find people who do that end up wasting a lot.

On a sidenote I had a fun time at the chinese buffet just a couple of days ago, the waitress started laughing at my then noticeably swollen belly after 6 full plates and even gave it a few rubs.

Going to be in New York City for a week starting on the 19th, any feeders or even feedees want to show me a good place to eat (and eat, and eat, and eat...)?

Stop seeing romance as some magical movie thing. Its never like that.

Girls respond to confidence (arrogance) more than anything. Even if you have nothing to back it up so long as you look like you know what you're doing people (girls) will be impressed. I have seen absolutely disgusting, even homeless men get attractive girls this way. This will probably be difficult for you as you've been battered all your life into thinking you're human garbage. I suggest medicating.

Best piece of advice I can give you is to never go on about how terrible you are because unless you're a 9/10 model its only going to chase girls away. Also for the love of God never mention you're a virgin over the age of 18, for some reason in the western world this is always seen as a big red flag to them, probably because of movies. You might get a pass for religious reason but I would still recommend against it.

I don't enjoy the weight gain aspect of it. I don't enjoy feeling fat, just really full.

In fact if it wasn't for the unintentional weight gain I would stuff myself silly on a daily basis.

I do this when I go out for a binge at a restaurant. I've gained a lot of weight (both lean and fat) over the past year so a lot of my old clothes that used to fit are now a lot tighter. A large will be tight around my arms and chest but only slightly touching my stomach.
After a big meal my belly has usually expanded to stretch out the rest of my shirt and it is quite noticeable. I pretend to not notice but I get a lot of glances from waitresses and other customers that usually think its funny.

Admittedly I feel embarrassed if I leave for somewhere else while my stomach is still so distended because since I'm not exactly obese it looks strange like I have a liver problem or are wearing a fake pregnancy belly.

Have you tried ekas?

Usually when I binge at an Asian buffet the waitresses seem to like it after they notice me going back for my fourth, fifth, sixth plates piled high with meat and vegetables. My stomach has a habit of swelling out after a big meal like that and they might have a laugh over it. Most of the ones around here recognize me when I come in.

I work out regularly and have a decent build and Asian cultures seem to have a reputation on admiring gluttonous eaters, I get more attention with them than I do at buffets like Golden Corral.