Time for an automatic. Manuals are not very common anymore. I'm 74, and have never driven one.
4 months
She doesn't want to gain. You either need to accept this, or break up.
4 months
That is what stretchy clothes, muumuus, and tunic tops are for. Also try maternity clothes, until your arms and legs are too fat to fit.
4 months
Fleetwood Mac and other 70's songs.
5 months
BigBallBellyGirl:
All the vintage Christmas music... Darlene Love and such!
She tours every Christmas. I saw her in NJ a week ago. Fantastic show.
6 months
Fat encourages the production of estrogen in everybody, male and female. That is why fat girls generally hit puberty earlier than thin ones.
6 months
Most women do not want to gain weight, and if you push it, or even mention it, you'll probably lose her. There is also a lot of things that are important other than gaining. And if a woman thinks you like her only because she will gain, you'll probably lose her. So, you may have to either find her on a gaining website, or mention you like large or gaining woman when you use conventional methods.
7 months
Having breasts alone is not enough to give you away. Especially since most genetic men don't grow that much. However, if you are wearing kind of frilly male clothes, wearing earrings, walking with a feminine gait, have long hair, have a somewhat high voice, then people will figure out what is happening.
9 months
Being involved with the size acceptance movement, I have seen way too many people die or become permanently disabled from Weight Loss Surgery. That is how Lisa Marie Presley died, I believe. Those who survived regained the weight. It doesn't work any better than any other diet, but with bad consequences.
AskDrFeeder:
One of the best parts of being a feedee is never having to diet.
It seems to me if that's your motivation, your goal should be to get fat enough to qualify for bariatric surgery but not _too_ fat for bariatric surgery. Not that you should necessarily have bariatric surgery, just that it's nice to have the option and it's nice to know if you reach that target you'll never have to diet.
Fat enough for bariatric surgery would be 40 bmi. Too fat is 450 pounds. Someone 5'7" tall, for example, should have a goal weight between 256 and 450 pounds.
Is this a crazy idea? I don't know, somehow I like it.
9 months
In most cases, people who fantasize about being fat, end up gaining. It's just natural. You have no reason to stay thin, and people tend to gain as they get older. I would not beat yourself up over it. Just enjoy it. I really see no religious reason to stay thin.
CuriousMe:
Hey ya’ll. I’m a mid-thirties female who has struggled with sexualizing weight gain and fat for a long while. I don’t necessarily want to indulge in this fetish and find it to be extremely distracting. Like, every time I see a heavy woman in public, I have to fight imagining myself at her size.
My mom used to be thin before I was born and then she “let herself go” and has been hovering around 200 pds as long as I can remember.
When I was a kid, my cousins and I used to stuff our clothes and pretend we were really fat. In my teens, I was a little chunky and one comment from my dad had me start focusing on my diet and exercise routine more. I used to fantasize about heavyset men at that age and the fantasies always involved humiliation.
Then fast forward to an unhealthy relationship where the guy I was with was seeing his ex on the side who was very curvy. I was in size 2 and 4 and she was a solid 16. So at that point my fetish flickered back on and I was trying to intentionally gain. But I never liked how I felt stuffed or feeling lethargic. I enjoy working out. 😂
So then my fantasies started turning into non-consent weight gain where a fit friend or a boyfriend would try to fatten me up through “protein” bars and vitamins that they told me would help me lose weight. All the while I was working out and my leggings were getting tighter and my butt was growing bigger and my belly would grow. There would be some humiliation involved. That is still extremely hot to me. And it simultaneously disgusts me.
Then I got pregnant and really enjoyed gaining. And it was socially acceptable. I didn’t try to stuff or overeat but I did love feeling big and heavy. Seeing my belly all round and my breasts went from C to DDD. I liked how big my hips got and even my little pregnant waddle.
Post-partum, I had no issue losing the weight. I breastfed, worked out, ate healthy. And even started a health coaching course.
And here I am fit and now engaged to a heavyset man who is around 300 pds. 5’ 9”. His belly is big and round and he is trying to lose the weight so he can be healthier. And I have seen photos of him fit and he is fine! But there is the fetish part of me that is wildly attracted to him bulging out of his shirts and overeating, taking naps. I even kind of like being really fit next to him in photos and seeing his double chin.
We are saving sex till marriage. And we are both working out now, but I have this extreme urge to gain weight before the wedding day. And surprise him with bigger hips. It seems deceitful in a way to say I’m trying to stay fit and then to secretly take supplements and try to gain. But there is something about that that really turns me on.
I’m at a crossroads. As a follower of Christ, I feel it is dishonorable to my temple to intentionally try to stuff it. My natural shape is fit. And I’m fantasizing forcing it to be curvy.
So sorry this is so long but I made an account on here to try to get to the bottom of this. Has anyone else experienced this kind of inner conflict?
It feels very self-sabotaging and I tend to obsess about it. Looking up weight gain products, padding, and anything that can fill my urge to feel heavier without actually committing to gaining. 🫣
To all those who choose to gain, I respect you. I am truly just a fantasy type girl who landed a fat hubby.
By the way, he knows about this fetish. But he thinks I am beautiful as I am and doesn’t want me to trash my temple for the sake of satisfying an unhealthy sexual urge.
9 months
