I've had a couple. One was the first time I've ever had a stranger comment on my weight. I was chatting with someone I'd just met about how I (apparently) look just like a guy he knows. In addition to similar hair color etc he gave a very noticeable (but unintentional) glance at my belly and mentioned we were both "a little...thicker..."
Also, I've noticed when I go in for a hug or cuddle with my wife now my belly is the first part of my body to make contact, laying in bed we wind up with a 2-4" gap between us because of the space my new gut occupies.
2 years
Haha, the Target in my area still has the fitting rooms closed due to covid so it's always fun guessing game about if any new pants will fit. I got lucky with my old size a few months ago, so when I needed a new pair for work last week I grabbed the same size (mens 34x32) off the shelf and headed home. Of course they sat in the bag untouched until right before I needed to leave. I confidently grabbed them pulled them up and...yikes. With my gut sucked in I could JUST get them done up, but were definitely not an option for a full day of work. Fortunately, I had an older, more stretched out pair, that was good enough. Bonus points for having my wife innocently asking why I wasn't wearing my new pants, and having to explain that I'd gotten too fat.
2 years
I'm definitely almost always half sucking it in, especially for photos since I'm still kind of self conscious about gaining weight. A while ago, I mentioned having put on some weight to my wife. I showed her my belly to prove my point, and she accused me of messing with her and pushing it out to look fatter, though really it was just my non-sucked in gut.
2 years
About 10-15lbs for me. Also losing some muscle mass, so getting softer and softer
3 years
Ugh, I'm a similar boat right now. My inventory of pants that I can bear to sit in for a long period of time is rapidly diminishing. I drive a lot for work, so I have to choose between being uncomfortable in tight pants, or being embarrassed driving around with my top button undone. I'll probably have to bite the bullet and get a bigger size soon, but yeah it is kind of a bummer
3 years
It was this site, I think! I've enjoyed reading (and looking at) this site since back in the day when I was in my athletic prime so as much as I enjoyed the content I never could personally relate to the experiences. Then one day (after years of gradual weight gain), I was looking in the mirror and realized how similar I looked to some of the fine chubby folks on here.
I used to read about people's gains here and in my subconscious wonder "how do you let yourself go like that? Good thing I've only gained a couple pounds...". It turns out that only gaining "a couple pounds" a year, turns into 40lbs and a beer gut before you realize it, and THAT'S how people let themselves go. because as it turns out I'm one of them...
3 years
So like everyone else I've packed on some pounds during quarantine. Right now though all of my pants still seem to fit. I think it's just my belly pushing them lower and sticking out further over the waistband
3 years
Only about 10lbs for me, but it's a big 10lbs. It's what officially put me juuuuuust up to 200lbs. It's also what crossed me over from being just a little overweight (according to a BMI chart) to being definitely overweight. It's also the fastest I've gained weight, I usually average about 3-4lbs a year so to jump up 10lbs over the course of a few months is kind of a big deal.
3 years
I remember a few years ago the first time my stats listed me as "overweight" on an online BMI test thing. At the time alarm bells were going off, and I was berating myself about how I could have let myself go that far.
Right now I'm 10+ lbs past that point, and half heartedly trying to diet/exercise myself back down to being just *a little* overweight
3 years
So, this quiz is obviously not very scientific. But it's interesting that I distinctly remember taking it when this post first came up and I was somewhere (I want to say) in the low 30%. I just retook it now, and i'm a solid 41%, so scientific or not it definitely documents your gain!
3 years