Solarflare43:
So to start this post I want to say I love & support my girlfriend regardless of her size

When I met her she was on the thicker side, however she always wore clothes a few sizes too small. I'd have to help her zip up dresses that were clearly ripping at the seams or breaking

She eventually told me that she gained weight over covid and used to be quite petite. Now over the course of our relationship (1.5 years) she's put on about 30 additional pounds and definitely can't fit her old clothes

I know she wants to lose weight, and I support her. But she barely eats (like 1 small meal a day & energy drinks). I'm worried about her nutrition, and her weight isn't changing.

None of her clothes fit right & she keeps ordering clothes that are too small and being disappointed when they don't fit.

I've bought her a few things here & there that actually fit, so they've become her wardrobe staples

She knows she's gained weight, she isn't in denial of the numbers. But I think she thinks her clothing sizes are much smaller than they are

Would it be a horrible idea for me to buy clothes that I think would actually fit her? I've been right at guessing her size so far. Maybe for a Christmas present. Cute stuff I know she'll like

Let me know if I'm making a massive blunder or not

GARMIN:
I am Japanese so I may give some tips for you.
You should know these words.it’s included slangs.
“肥育” (hi iku) : feeding something.
“自己肥育”(zi ko hi iku) : feeding myself.
“強制肥育” ( kyo sei hi iku) : force feeding.
“肥満”( hi man ): obesity.
“肥満化”( hi man ka) : Get fat. This word is not popular. It is used only in community.
“太る”(futo ru) “太った”( futo tta) : get / got some weight. It is popular phrase.
“デブ” (de bu) : fatty. This is a dirty word. Don’t use it without trusted gainer.
“デブ専” (de bu sen): Someone who loves only fatty man/woman.
“ぽっちゃり”(potchari) ぽちゃ(pocha) : plump.
“みけぽ”(mi ke po) : more than 100kg(220lbs) size.

“肉塊”( niku kai): It means meat block. But in the community, it means immobile obese ( Almost use on fantasy fiction).

As far as I know, Japanese feeder / gainer community like fantasy feeder is not exist. Almost Japanese gainer / feeder use Twitter. So search Twitter and use mentioned words.

Let me know If you need another information.

Eating Dude:
Hi,

I always think about feederism the last few days and also chat with people about it. To be honest it makes me horny and I can't focus very good on tasks I have to do!

How do you manage this??

Miachu:
I ended up ghosting all my friends for like 2 days, I honestly felt so down and embarrassed over it, and what made it worse is my BF say it

However I've spoke to some of my friends about it now

Spike:
I do not wear pants as they never stay up or my belly makes it look like an intertube. I havent looked back since 2011 when i stopped wearing leg prisons.
Fuck them pants XD