Fantasy Feeder

Big chapter dump or space it out?

LoraDayton:
Hiccupx has it right. The way the platform is built means you have to kind of experiment with strategy, and adjust that strategy as you build an audience. I don't have many stories here, this just has to do with my creative output in general recently, but I am going to be ramping it up this year considerably. However the strategy in which I publish differs based on which platform.

There are some stories I personally will probably be making exclusive and premium here, but not all of my mine are going to fit the format of this platform so it has to be written for it because it has limitations.

Your question really depends on the type of story, your format, knowing the platform, knowing the audience, and as others have said knowing that the audience changes based on which platform you're on. "Going wide" which means having your work available in multiple places is really going to be key overall.

If you have a very long story, as you said If you're looking at a 60,000 word novel, I'm not even sure I would post that here at all because of the way the platform is built. It's really just not meant for long-form stories and I tend to not read them because it's just not easy to consume it. There are some whose stories I did decide to give a shot in a fell into it and so I'll read when there's an update, but I just don't click with reading long form ones here. DeviantArt and AO3 are waaaaay better for that.

dunno, isn't DA limited to 50k characters?

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Do feeders/fas care about the feelings of their feedees/ gainers/ partners?

Like asking if anyone cares about other people's feelings. Good people do, bad people maybe don't, sociopaths and psychopaths definitely not. Try to avoid dating psychopathic feeders, just like you'd avoid dating psychopathic non-feeders - the latter are much more plentiful, lol

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Will my gf blow up like her twin sister??

Munchies:
I already told you before. But I will tell you again. There are too many people on this site that do not treat women (and sometimes other minority groups) like people. All we want is basic respect. There is a lot of misogeny on this site, and people are tired of it. So we are pushing back on it.

I'm sorry if you feel like it's an inconvience to you, but imagine what it's like for us.

cool beans, just restate what you've already said despite NO ONE asking you to do so, complain about having to restate it, ignore the comment you're replying to entirely, but look like you replied while also playing the victim card and offering no real solutions. Very mature. Really contributing to the community Munchies. /s

Any of your acolytes want to try their hand at expressing a real solution to the questions posed rather than just attacking pointlessly or playing for sympathy?

And for the record, as you well know, I absolutely care and have imagined, as best I can as a cis straight white male, what you've gone through, and I think the problems you bring up are real issues that need to be solved.

But the solution isn't to shut down anyone that posts something that isn't perfectly framed to sjw aesthetics. It MAY be to divide the forums and moderate them differently, but that's a difficult, problematic, ubiquitous, and expensive proposition.

So I will ask again, do you have any ideas to contribute on how to solve the issues of inclusion on BOTH sides of this equation? To have a forum where women and minorities and transpeople feel safe, and to simultaneously have a forum where everyone feels heard and free to express themselves without shame (within the boundaries, of course, of not intentionally directing abuse at specific site members or communities, using hate speech, etc.)?

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Will my gf blow up like her twin sister??

Munchies:
Then what, pray tell, should we do when users post harmful rhetoric?

Political correctness isn't even part of the situation. Political correctness is about things like "Is it better to say POC or BIPOC?"

The things people are pushing back about is misogeny, transphobia, homophobia, and racism - usually just the first two.

Read the messages again. No on cared that he wanted to fatten up his girlfriend. Heck, on this site, everyone would suppose him with that.

It was the non-consensual objectification and dehumanization of his actions that people had issues with.

I don't know if you are aware, but this site has a massive problem with treating women like people. If you look around the forums, you'll see men doing and saying some horrible things and women recounting their own nightmarish experiences.

I ask you what is more important to you? Letting people say things that make others - especially women - feel unsafe and leave the site in droves? Or would you rather women feel safe and stay on this site? Because if all the women leave, this place will become a sausage fest and the site will collapse.

I think what Hiccupx was saying is that if your default is hostility to anyone that doesn't fit your sensibilities, that will drive people from the site too.

I agree the site has a sex-ratio issue, but so do most dating sites and social forums. It's an internet issue and a human issue, not exclusively an FF issue.

Making a place that women feel safe is important, but driving away the core clientele for a business is also a mistake. It's got to be a balance.

Yes, the worst offenders need to be dealt with, flagged to mods. But going out of your way to be hostile to people posting general ideas and fantasies and questions isn't the answer either, I think, and I think you know that too, deep down inside, in spite of what your groupies parrot to you.

That post a couple months ago discussing what you'd like to see on a safe social forum was a great idea, but I have a different one for you: If you ran a site like this, on this internet, in this culture, with this species, how would you balance the safety of free expression with the safety of women? Would you suggest something like a split forum, one for shame-free expression, and one for a safer space in this genre and community? Would you be willing to moderate the latter? What are your thoughts? Because if you can find a better balance between those interests, I'm sure we'd all, non-sarcastically, appreciate hearing it.

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Folks , what is the sexiest position a bigger girl can take nudes in? (advice)

BlackBriarMeadery:
I asked on fetlife already but I'm curious what you'd guys say here , what is in your opinion the sexiest position a bigger girl can take nudes or just regular selfies? Doing research on what I should start doing.

The default is the same as photography in general, unusual angles, unusual poses, best catch attention. But there are a number of poses that heavier women can do that thinner women can't, and those also have especial appeal. Any pose that creates a roll or fold, any pose using or moving or squishing fat rolls, and poses designed to show off softness or shape, imo

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Will my gf blow up like her twin sister??

Spookyhoodlum:
this is just a fantasy...... I do love my GF...... my sexual fantasy is just that fanatsy. why does everyone get so fucking serious on here🙃

lol, not everyone is, but there's a handful that stalk the forums for any content to sjw rage about, going completely over the top on trying to silence content that offends or annoys or triggers them. And you were an easy target here.

If you're going to post in the forums, write down their names and learn to ignore them. Spoken with a number of people now that intentionally avoid the forums for this reason. lol, it's like these people have no idea this is a fetish smut site for people expressing raw id, not their own private safe space. I've seen them rant and shame about how other people should avoid posting on a thread if it doesn't directly concern their own experiences, and then turn around and gang tirade like this. Irony and hypocrisy is lost on them, just ignore them.

And consider writing a story, sounds hot and kinky to me.

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Ddlg

Wifestuffer:
I did NOT think I'd be into this at all.

Of course, "little" is rather a contradiction considering her size.

But Lisa's recently started calling me "daddy" and braiding her hair into adorable long pigtails. It's a hairstyle that really shows off how fat someone is, it draws attention to how she has no neck anymore, between her triple chin and chubby shoulders.

My big obese princess.
We're celebrating our anniversary, and she bought a cake... but she was too hungry.

"Daddy, can I have the whole cake?"

I gave her permission.
She's earned it, being so huge and hungry. Big girl's gotta eat, and I know she'll put it to good use filling our house with more of herself.

SinWithAGrin:
Littles make the best feedees forreal. I dated a little who had never heard of feedism until she found out I liked bigger girls. She agreed to gain 20lbs to try it, after her first buffet stuffing she asked me to make her 250. She said that having a daddy control her diet and being too stuffed to move made her feel more little. In 8 months she went from a 112 lbs gymrat to a lazy out of shape 196 lbs spoiled brat. It was a magical experience

jesus that would make a good story here

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Why are you into feederism?

I think... a mix of things. Part innate predisposition, certainly. Partly a number of positive and negative childhood experiences. Partly interests in related genres, like fertility or body contrast between men and women or the inherent eroticism of counterculture and irony and recursion. A number of experiences in adolescence, both interpersonal and private, social and online. And an absolutely huge number of aesthetic qualities.

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Ssbbw mail order bride (serious only)

I think FF would do well to copy your format, or just make your own site, very well structured.

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The larger side - a rant on the irony and hypocrisy of fetishizing thinness while tabooing fat a

Reflection Of Perfection:
"A thin female body, on the other hand, has no biological reason to be attractive"

Sit down and shaddup. You don't speak for the rest of us that can find women attractive no matter what.

Sit down and shaddup. Are you mentally deficient? You use a quote as evidence WITHOUT ACTUALLY READING THE QUOTE, and miss this quote "I didn't actually say thin wasn't attractive - I find it attractive" explaining it even more. If you're not gonna read the convo, don't show up pretending to be a knight in shining armor, you're don quixote pissed at shit that's not there and trying to get laid

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