I would love to do this. Have a group of male and female friends who would gather once a week at a different restaurant and we would stuff ourselves silly. Giving support to each other, encouraging our gaining, and massaging our swollen bellies afterwards. This would be so hot and so much fun!

I would have to agree with the above. As someone who was teased constantly as a child and teenager for having large "moobs", it is very difficult to embrace the idea of a woman playing with them or being turned on by them. Now having said that I find it very refreshing that there are many women on this board who love "moobs". And mine have certainly grown even larger as I have gained weight. But I would still rather have a woman get turned on and comment on how much my big belly turns her on, have her rub it, and express her love of my overall fatness, then focus on my moobs. However, if the foreplay started with my belly and led to her caressing my moobs while she expressed her love for my overall fatness, I think I could embrace having my moobs played with knowing it really turned her on.

Oh my God, this is my stuffing fantasy in a nutshell. Would love to have a female feeder do that to me. This is so hot I am hard as a rock!

It definitely worked for me but I did not do it on purpose. Went on a diet 3 times (Weight Watchers, Nutri-System, etc.) and always gained back almost twice what I lost. Finally decided enough with the dieting and I am going to let nature takes its course. Gained 130 lbs. slowly and steadily over a 12 year period. Losing and gaining numerous times over is not healthy for your body according to the medical experts. Better just to keep at it in a steady as you go fashion so your body has time to adjust to each new weight level as you fatten up. I also was pleased to discover that gaining weight and growing fat was very physically and psychologically pleasurable. And as someone who loves to eat, just letting yourself go is really nice.

Thanks Wera. A wonderfully written, well thought out post. As Otherland78 said, "Your post perfectly describes my desires and wishes in a relationship" as well.

My aunt is 23 years older than me and had always been very nurturing through cooking sumptuous meals for family gatherings and holidays. She always took pride in all of us stuffing ourselves on her cooking. These family meals fueled many of my adolescent fantasies which continue to this day. The thought of my aunt cooking and feeding me, firmly but lovingly forcing me to eat and grow fatter still turns me on. As I grew older, my fantasy expanded to include me feeding and fattening her, with both of us growing fatter together.

I usually gain around 10 lbs. between Thanksgiving and New Years. I must admit I love this time of year for feasting on all the cookies, cakes, and candy that my co-workers bring to work and the wonderful fattening meals and parties.

I am too large and heavy:

* To enjoy a meal that doesn't include dessert.
* To really enjoy a meal without having seconds.
* To fit comfortably in most cars unless it is an SUV or full size one.
* To fit comfortably in theatre or stadium seats.
* To buckle my seatbelt on an airplane without an extender.
* To be able lower the tray table all the way down because my belly is too big.
* To run more than a dozen steps without getting winded.
* To climb more than a dozen stairs without getting winded.
* To fit into regular chairs if they have arms.
* To fit into most restaurant booths.

Having said all of the above, I do love being fat!

I think both of you are right. I chose "mutual gainer" as well since I am turned on by my own weight gain and women who gain weight as well. While I am not in such a relationship, the idea of being with a women who loves to eat as much as I do and where we both encourage each other and grow fat together is my version of heaven.

After going on 3 diets and gaining back more than I lost, I decided I am not dieting anymore. My heaviest when I was in high school was 205 lbs. I got down to 175 lbs. senior year and thought I would never be 205 again. But alas when I did reach it, I decided to just eat what I wanted and let nature take its course. A new job with lots of lunch meetings led to 40 more lbs. being added in 4 years. So now I was 245. Another new job led to 25 more lbs. in one year. Now 270. I found myself enjoying my own fattening and just let it go from there. Slowly and steadily I have added more weight and now have hit 305. It turns me on to think I have gained 130 lbs. And I have decided to enjoy my life as a big bellied fat guy going forward.