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Edxl
4 years
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weight gain week
That could be the b's job. Odds are good he'd enjoy that part ;-)
weight gain week
That could be the b's job. Odds are good he'd enjoy that part ;-)
Edxl
4 years
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what was the first wakening to your fetish?
After talking with a lot of FA in online fat communities, I've concluded that there is no one factor. Some had fat influences in their life, others didn't. Some awakened to it as kids, some at ...
what was the first wakening to your fetish?
After talking with a lot of FA in online fat communities, I've concluded that there is no one factor. Some had fat influences in their life, others didn't. Some awakened to it as kids, some at ...
Edxl
4 years
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if you're getting fat, there is no way back? or it's not true?
Many studies have found that few people lose and keep off more than 10% of their body weight, and losing and regaining large amounts and repeatedly tends to make the regain bigger while weakening h...
if you're getting fat, there is no way back? or it's not true?
Many studies have found that few people lose and keep off more than 10% of their body weight, and losing and regaining large amounts and repeatedly tends to make the regain bigger while weakening h...
Edxl
4 years
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what do you guys think of health issues?
The very little in the way of study results I've seen that looked at mortality by degree of obesity didn't seem to see much impact up to BMI 35, but it steadily rose in higher tiers. And there are...
what do you guys think of health issues?
The very little in the way of study results I've seen that looked at mortality by degree of obesity didn't seem to see much impact up to BMI 35, but it steadily rose in higher tiers. And there are...
Edxl
4 years
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looking for ideas/activities to a fat friendly date
Think about transportation. If you are meeting somewhere, how easy is it for her to get there?
Dating anyone you want to assure their dignity. Try to minimize the odds of staring or name c...
looking for ideas/activities to a fat friendly date
Think about transportation. If you are meeting somewhere, how easy is it for her to get there?
Dating anyone you want to assure their dignity. Try to minimize the odds of staring or name c...
Edxl
4 years
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make your fat feel heavier
Not as dense, and a bit time consuming, but I've used a lot of small water balloons. Similar density to flesh, will take whatever shape you squish them too, and if you keep them individually smal...
make your fat feel heavier
Not as dense, and a bit time consuming, but I've used a lot of small water balloons. Similar density to flesh, will take whatever shape you squish them too, and if you keep them individually smal...
Edxl
4 years
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nervous to embrace gaining
I'd suggest try to take control of your narrative. If you are clearly happy, learning, involved in life, etc. Then your parents are going to be happy for you, and have so much positive to fo...
nervous to embrace gaining
I'd suggest try to take control of your narrative. If you are clearly happy, learning, involved in life, etc. Then your parents are going to be happy for you, and have so much positive to fo...
Edxl
4 years
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i need help
Are you getting any treatment or support for your depression? Depression isn't just something that you can will away, so if you are not getting any help, please try to find what is available to y...
i need help
Are you getting any treatment or support for your depression? Depression isn't just something that you can will away, so if you are not getting any help, please try to find what is available to y...
Edxl
4 years
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nervous to embrace gaining
How are you doing this week? Did starting talk with the therapist help at all?
And for sure the cognitive dissonance from conflicting thoughts in your head can be exhausting. Although you...
nervous to embrace gaining
How are you doing this week? Did starting talk with the therapist help at all?
And for sure the cognitive dissonance from conflicting thoughts in your head can be exhausting. Although you...
Edxl
4 years
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nervous to embrace gaining
Step two to deliberately gaining is accepting that people will notice, that some may comment, that gradually your fatness may make you stand out from family and friends, and that there is some 'thi...
nervous to embrace gaining
Step two to deliberately gaining is accepting that people will notice, that some may comment, that gradually your fatness may make you stand out from family and friends, and that there is some 'thi...
Edxl
4 years
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has anyone else gone through obesity their childhood? if so how has it impacted you
I've been varying degrees of fat since I was a toddler -- I was way off the weight charts at one year old, and while I became closer to normal I was a husky kid always.
I got teased about it s...
has anyone else gone through obesity their childhood? if so how has it impacted you
I've been varying degrees of fat since I was a toddler -- I was way off the weight charts at one year old, and while I became closer to normal I was a husky kid always.
I got teased about it s...
Edxl
4 years
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wanting the best of both worlds.
Yikes, sounds like an environment where it would be difficult to ever be comfortable with extra weight
wanting the best of both worlds.
Yikes, sounds like an environment where it would be difficult to ever be comfortable with extra weight
Edxl
4 years
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wanting the best of both worlds.
I wonder if there was something between back then and now that really hurt her? Some guy who treated her badly, a coworker who really attacked her confidence, or the like?
wanting the best of both worlds.
I wonder if there was something between back then and now that really hurt her? Some guy who treated her badly, a coworker who really attacked her confidence, or the like?
Edxl
4 years
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wanting the best of both worlds.
I hope she's resolved some of those conflicting thoughts and feelings -- cognitive dissonance can be exhausting!
One thought, if she is still struggling, is to help her have something else t...
wanting the best of both worlds.
I hope she's resolved some of those conflicting thoughts and feelings -- cognitive dissonance can be exhausting!
One thought, if she is still struggling, is to help her have something else t...
Edxl
4 years
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best way to gain weight with least health risks
Health risks from various sources kind of multiply. So also try to limit your non fat related risks. Don't smoke, don't drink heavily. Get enough sleep. Take care of your teeth. Address any ot...
best way to gain weight with least health risks
Health risks from various sources kind of multiply. So also try to limit your non fat related risks. Don't smoke, don't drink heavily. Get enough sleep. Take care of your teeth. Address any ot...
Edxl
4 years
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how to break it to new gf about my fetish...
I'd suggest approaching it a piece at a time. If a piece goes over well then you can try the next piece in another week. If you hit something that is a no go for her, it isn't too big a thing to ...
how to break it to new gf about my fetish...
I'd suggest approaching it a piece at a time. If a piece goes over well then you can try the next piece in another week. If you hit something that is a no go for her, it isn't too big a thing to ...
Edxl
4 years
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sweaty during sex
I can sweat quite a bit during sex. Especially noticeable if I was on my back on the mattress for long, as the sheet will show that the whole area under my back is wet. Depends some on the weathe...
sweaty during sex
I can sweat quite a bit during sex. Especially noticeable if I was on my back on the mattress for long, as the sheet will show that the whole area under my back is wet. Depends some on the weathe...
Edxl
4 years
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advice please!!
I've got two suggestions:
1-Tell him in stages. Let him know that you don't like six packs, then let him know that you like some belly on a guy, then that you like seeing guys enjoy food, etc....
advice please!!
I've got two suggestions:
1-Tell him in stages. Let him know that you don't like six packs, then let him know that you like some belly on a guy, then that you like seeing guys enjoy food, etc....
Edxl
4 years
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girlfriend wants to be feeder, but still feels uncomfortable with her weight gain
First of all, she may always have mixed feelings. Lots of us do about a lot of things that we choose to do. It is ok, but itmeans you need to take the time to talk lots, and really listen. (a...
girlfriend wants to be feeder, but still feels uncomfortable with her weight gain
First of all, she may always have mixed feelings. Lots of us do about a lot of things that we choose to do. It is ok, but itmeans you need to take the time to talk lots, and really listen. (a...
