I've actually lost about 35 lbs since the first pics here, though I'm also stuffed in those pics and not really here.
We live in a society with rules of civil behaviour (and laws), and the position you're taking, BBWadm, defies currently accepted standards.
wearing (or not) something revealing is NOT synonymous with asking for 'it', nor should it be seen that way, nor should we have to expect that people might take it that way.
I had a tooth out tonight, so I just had mashed potatoes, wretty. Pork burrito sounds fab!